My mom was insistent that I send announcements for my graduation. In my community, not everyone graduated from high school. That said, there was no expectation of a gift. If you want to, send something but don't feel obligated. A card would be nice. I also like the idea of a check in the amount of the graduation year.

Anonymous wrote:In my family, it's tradition to give money for a high school graduation. Did not grow up with money- solid middle class. But a godparent would give $100. Again, each family is different.

What a bizarre statement. Since when does middle class equal “no money” aka impoverished? By definition middle class means enough money to be doing much better than many folks.