Anonymous wrote:All I can say is, that is utterly lame (hiring someone to grill at your BBQ). If you don't get that, well, there are probably a lot of things you don't get.
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Maybe OP is not concerned about demonstrating testosterone via cooking slabs of flesh over a flame. Maybe OP and her spouse want to mingle, enjoy, and relax instead of standing over a hot grill for the majority of the party. It's a big group, which means lots of grill time to provide enough for everyone. Sounds like a great idea to me!