Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I feel like many of my friends are doing fun expensive things (beautiful, large parties etc) and we really can't afford to do anything right now (we earn a lot but have a lot of debt and expenses). It's making me sad and depressed because I'd like to have a party or do something really special. Any ideas for something special that doesn't cost a lot?
This is us too. I turned 50 last summer, and because there's a lot of upheaval in our family right now (finances, two aging parents to deal with, first kid off to college, a move to a new city) we didn't do much for my birthday. It will be our 25th wedding anniversary in 18 mos. By then I'm hoping we're in a position to take a nice trip or do something special.