Anonymous
04/13/2012 21:04
Subject: Furious Wife, Privacy Breached
Your marriage will not last. You've got distrust, snooping, anger, indignation, contempt and god knows what else.
Anonymous
04/13/2012 20:55
Subject: Furious Wife, Privacy Breached
Despite his previous snooping, I hadn't changed passwords. I didn't want to have to do that, because I expect him to respect the boundary between me, you and us without the equivalent of parental controls for marriage. This is why I got so upset. I don't want to feel the need to keep logins secret.
Anonymous
04/13/2012 20:22
Subject: Furious Wife, Privacy Breached
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Makes total sense. I misused the word "hacked." We know all of each others passwords and PIN codes. He always had the ability to look. The expectation is that he wouldn't.
Then how is it private when he knows the passwords and PIN codes? You already said that you have to constantly change the passwords because he gets into the emails but now you say he always knows the passwords and has the ability to look? You said before that he was snooping because he thought you would have an affair because of your attraction to another man and then you went on in another post and said that he was snooping for a birthday present and for fun. OP, stop faking on this fake post.
Anonymous
04/13/2012 20:14
Subject: Furious Wife, Privacy Breached
Anonymous wrote:The liberal marriage on display. The break down of family in America is in full effect. OP full steam ahead. Personally since you deserve privacy I think you should have sex with this guy and if your husband finds out berate him for invading your privacy.
Oh yeah, marital issues are a "liberal" thing. That's why the divorce rate in the South is 40% higher than in the Northeast.
http://www.census.gov/prod/2011pubs/acs-13.pdf
Anonymous
04/13/2012 20:04
Subject: Furious Wife, Privacy Breached
Anonymous wrote:I am still fuming. This is the the third time I have caught husband hacking into my email or phone to view my private correspondence. After the last incident, I was very clear that we are not a Venn diagram of an intersection and I exist separately from him with expectations of privacy. He's concerned about my honest attraction towards another man and is worried I would have an affair. Not my style.
I am super annoyed that I have to change passwords and pin codes due to my snooping spouse who has no reason to worry. I am actually very, very angry right now. ISO advice.
Don't let your husband read DCUM. They will all tell him to snoop in your email if he suspects infidelity. They will probably give him tips on how to do it.
Anonymous
04/13/2012 19:54
Subject: Furious Wife, Privacy Breached
OP here. Makes total sense. I misused the word "hacked." We know all of each others passwords and PIN codes. He always had the ability to look. The expectation is that he wouldn't.
Anonymous
04/13/2012 19:37
Subject: Furious Wife, Privacy Breached
OP, I understand why you are upset. I have my phone and my own email. DH has his. Our email accounts are on a shared computer. They are not password protected. I have never looked at his account and I am sure he's never looked at mine. He could, but he has no reason to. We don't open each other's mail that comes to the house, either. I think that if we started password protecting things it would make us wonder why we felt the need to do that. Does that make sense? We've been married for 16 years, FWIW.
Anonymous
04/13/2012 19:21
Subject: Furious Wife, Privacy Breached
Anonymous wrote:Bullshit. I don't care if I'm having hot monkey sex in the linen closet, snooping is beyond the pale. Divorce material as far as I'm concerned.
If that's your threshhold for divorce, and if that's the value you place on privacy, then divorce. I think most people feel otherwise. It sounds like you place your husband's feelings way, way, below your privacy.
Anonymous
04/13/2012 16:52
Subject: Furious Wife, Privacy Breached
I wonder if the OP is really attractive, sexy, and hot, or, overweight, repulsive, and gross....
Anonymous
04/13/2012 16:33
Subject: Furious Wife, Privacy Breached
You're an idiot, 15:40.
There is nothing in this thread that references the liberal marriage or the breakdown of the family.
The only breakdown here is between an husband who doesn't respect his wife and a wife who, shockingly, expects her email to be private.
I bet you expect your email to be private, too, right?
There is nothing in this thread that references the liberal marriage or the breakdown of the family.
The only breakdown here is between an husband who doesn't respect his wife and a wife who, shockingly, expects her email to be private.
I bet you expect your email to be private, too, right?
Anonymous
04/13/2012 15:40
Subject: Furious Wife, Privacy Breached
The liberal marriage on display. The break down of family in America is in full effect. OP full steam ahead. Personally since you deserve privacy I think you should have sex with this guy and if your husband finds out berate him for invading your privacy.
Anonymous
04/13/2012 15:30
Subject: Furious Wife, Privacy Breached
Bullshit. I don't care if I'm having hot monkey sex in the linen closet, snooping is beyond the pale. Divorce material as far as I'm concerned.
Anonymous
04/13/2012 15:26
Subject: Furious Wife, Privacy Breached
LOLOL!!!!
Anonymous
04/13/2012 14:48
Subject: Furious Wife, Privacy Breached
PP, you already know the answer.
Anonymous
04/13/2012 14:33
Subject: Furious Wife, Privacy Breached
OP, are you wearing a pair of damp panties right now?