Where are you OP? How did Christmas go? Did you get the boyfriend a gift? How about your family?

How do you get away with visiting him every month? You must go for an extended time, otherwise, wouldn't he wonder what was up? Why hasn't he tried to visit you at home, how have you managed to keep your family a secret? I call bullshit. Quit reading so many romance novels.

is anyone getting the best of you?

Juicee wrote:I do have a job I don't make enough to live alone
My poor husband is an abusive asshole who likes to slap me around, and once gave me an std during our 3rd year of marriage.
I'm on DCUM because I am a nanny

So your answer is to sleep with another man???

Good luck with that.

I do have a job I don't make enough to live alone
My poor husband is an abusive asshole who likes to slap me around, and once gave me an std during our 3rd year of marriage.
I'm on DCUM because I am a nanny

Anonymous wrote:I'm in almost the exact same situation except we have no children. I just need to get the courage and money to leave my husband.

So, you're just using your husband for his money? And cheating on him?

Why don't you get a job, esp. since you have no kids? And tell your poor husband all about what kind of person you are so that he can leave you and meet someone who will love him, respect him, and be faithful to him?

Your behavior is disgusting. Also, what are you doing on DCUM if you don't have kids?

I'm in almost the exact same situation except we have no children. I just need to get the courage and money to leave my husband.

Stop the affair.
Figure out how to get financially independent.
End your marriage.
Be single for awhile until you can figure your sh*t out.
Then when that's done, maybe you'll meet a good guy.
And make sure the kid comes first in all of this. He/she didn't ask to be born into this.

I wonder if this is the same person complaining about her genital herpes i can see it as a troll or true because she if true she is a hoe bag