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There would be two reactions, one for the kids and one for myself.

First, my kids love her, adore her, and she loves them. Even though I disapprove her way of parenting over which I have had to many fights with her, I would be truly sorry for my kids if dw decides to leave them.


Second, to be honest, I would be happy to be relieved from a husband-and-daddy role which I have been playing since meeting her a long time ago. I still love her just like a brother would love a sister, but we see the world differently, and though I am still physically attracted to her, she hasn't been to me for a long time. Though I suspected she had an affair last year, I didn't even bother to find out. I was living in an emotional wasteland for too long, though it was partially due to my own fault.

I'd be lonely as hell b/c she's by best friend. I'd try to fill in the time with other things and other ppl, but I know it wouldn't be the same.

In the long haul, I don't see myself remarrying. I did it, it's great, she's great, don't think I'll find another comparable again, and frankly, I don't want to go through the effort of trying. Spending time together, being intimate, etc., is way different than building a life together. I only really want to do that with my wife, so if she left, I wouldn't try it again with another. I'd try to just build a life on my own.

If my H left me, I'd call my FWB and beg him to leave his wife so we can be together. Just the truth.

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