Anonymous wrote:I really can't stand the ones that are JUST a photo - flat - not folded - sometimes not even printed on! especially if it's ONLY the child - especially if it's ONLY a newborn. Once I received one of these and DH threw away the envelope and I had no idea who it was from. But that's not the only reason I detest this kind of card- to me it just represents the most minimal effort possible. Yes, I have children. yes I work. Yes, i go to a lot of trouble to send a few, carefully planned /chosen cards. I might include a nice family photo if I have one. But it always has an inscription of some kind. It's usually from a vacation or someplace special. I value this much more than a mass mailing that equates a birth announcement. Or duplicates a birth announcement! Yikes!
Anonymous wrote:Any card that isn't providing news. If we're Facebook friends, I've seen pictures of your kids. If you're a neighbor, I know what you look like. If it makes you feel good to send something that has a preprinted "Merry Christmas" and your signature, go for it. But if you stop, I won't miss it.
Anonymous wrote:OMG I would love to get a chia pet. Seriously. We find them hilarious and it would brighten my daay..cha cha cha chia...
Well call me crazy, but I save all photo cards and love to look back at them. I look forward to seeing cute photos of my friend's kids.
Well call me crazy AND sucky too. I used to write thoughtful notes to everyone, but I drove myself nuts. Nobody else seems to do it and I still consider them friends so I only write notes to a few people. I have done the photo of the kids without us because I looked awful at the time, I hated the extra weight I couldn't seem to lose and while my husband looked great I thought people would find it strange if I put him and the kids in the card without me. I always do the cheap 4x8 photopaper card. Why spend over a dollar per card if you don't have a lot of money to spare?
I'm already looking forward to checking my mailbox and getting real mail instead of bills.
The cards I HATE are from annoying people complaining that we never see them or blah blah. Send cheer and don't nag. Hmmm guess this is why you never see us, you bring us down...
Anonymous wrote:Anything with glitter on it. Even if it's glued on it comes off and makes a mess.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I love that DCUM manages to get itself worked up over something as inconsequential as the type of Christmas cards they receive (and make themselves send out even though they hate doing so) two months out from Christmas. I would love to see you people have a real problem.
Have you heard of something called distraction? People chat about this stuff because it's funny and light. I venture to say most of us have real problems and this sort of chit chat helps us forget.
Oh and No Christmas Card for you rude poster!