Sorry, PP. You will heal, but next time opt for the section. Scar tissue won't gave the same sensation during sex, so you might not want any additional trauma down there with a subsequent vaginal delivery.

Your mistake was looking at 3 weeks. After my 6 week checkup doctor told me all was normal, so I looked then. Honestly could not see a scar, and ?I also had 2nd degree tear. Husband notices no difference. Scars get better over time. Just like those with c-sections said, a csection scar is pretty horrifying at 3 weeks. Yes, there are a small percentage of women who have more serious complications from tears, but women with vaginal deliveries recover very quickly.

I also had a second degree tear. Twice daily sitz baths with Epsom salts made a huge difference for me in recovery.