Anonymous wrote:Again.... whatever. I like the letter grades better, although I would like to see more personalized comments. Good luck to you and your student.
And, by the way, the kids I'm referring to are not designated "learning disabled."
Anonymous wrote:No. I just think that parents need (and want) more concrete feedback about what the child is doing compared to what they are expected to do. This focus on "Johnny is working on recognizing sounds" when actually 75% of the other Johnnys and Janes in the same grade are reading more complicated books does everyone a disservice.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:For goodness sakes! If you didn't know what it meant, why didn't you ask?
I did ask, over several months and both in person and by email. The extent of the conversation with my DD's teacher at the meeting that I requested was "Don't worry, she's doing fine." Then I was pretty much dismissed.
Then you should have asked the principal or the parent liaison. I don't understand why parents don't pursue things more when they don't understand.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:For goodness sakes! If you didn't know what it meant, why didn't you ask?
I did ask, over several months and both in person and by email. The extent of the conversation with my DD's teacher at the meeting that I requested was "Don't worry, she's doing fine." Then I was pretty much dismissed.
Anonymous wrote:For goodness sakes! If you didn't know what it meant, why didn't you ask?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote: That looks remarkably similar to what we received for a Kindergarten progress report last year. All we had was a list of 5s and then a separate sheet with a marker "thermometer" for reading, and it showed a line a little further up the page for different marking periods. I guess my child did okay since she's going to start 1st grade tomorrow, but I have no idea what it all means.
For goodness sakes! If you didn't know what it meant, why didn't you ask?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:There has been no discussion of gossipping or telling other people who's kid is doing what on this thread. You may have concerns about that b/c your child is LD or you have seen people gossipping about low performers. In this thread, the PP expressed his/her opinion and didn't name names and never said he/she discussed specific students with other parents. He/She has made a conclusion that you don't agree with. A person who is exposed to a situation will usually process that and try to make sense of it by finding an explanation. You can say based on your experience, that your child is not behind for lack of parental interaction. However, I bet there are plenty of kids who could improve with more parental interaction. The fact that your child is not one of them does not negate the theory that a good portion of the kids who have not met benchmarks could meet them if they had more parental help.
The condescending PP didn't say she gossipped but a number of us have experience with volunteers like her who "process" their situation by assuming things about parents and talking about it with other parents. I'm the PP who wrote about the volunteer assuming the OT was for the boy in the wheelchair. I've heard plenty of gossip from volunteers who sound identical to the condescending PP. There are many reasons why kids don't meet benchmarks. Parental involvement may help but isn't the biggest factor and lack of their involvement isn't always because they don't care. There are many barriers to involvement including languge and time, both of which are linked to socioeconomic level. Research has shown that the best indicator of academic success is the mother's education level and the family's socioeconomic level. It's easy to be judgmental when you've not been in someone else's shoes.
Anonymous wrote:Which report card gives you, the parent, more useful information about your child's Language Arts Grade?
This one:
Language Arts: C
or
Listens and speaks for specific purposes 4
Locates and uses information from a variety of sources 4
Reads with accuracy and fluency 3
Reads with understanding 3
Writes with purpose, clarity, and expression 2
Edits for usage and mechanics in own writing 1
You should assume that a 4 denotes expected skill for the age and grade. The objectives being highlighted on the report card are ones that are being taught that quarter, and teachers would expect children to mas-ter them. So you can think of a 4 as an A, a 3 as a B, a 2 as a C if you want.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you are working with kids at math or reading, you are going to be able to tell who is getting it and who isn't. The teachers don't have to "share" info. for a volunteer to figure it out.
If your child is doing his/her best, then be comfortable with that. It doesn't matter what other people's opinions are. Volunteers are going to have opinions based on what they see. True, it isn't a complete picture. But, everyone is entitled to their own opinions and they don't have to get your permission to have an opinion about kids/grades/schools.
They are entitled to their opinions, but they should be mature enough to keep them to themselves. I have found that many of the volunteer moms are busybodies who feel the need to share what they discover in the classroom with other mothers. I find it incredibly offensive that they gossip about early elementary school children with other mothers.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you are working with kids at math or reading, you are going to be able to tell who is getting it and who isn't. The teachers don't have to "share" info. for a volunteer to figure it out.
If your child is doing his/her best, then be comfortable with that. It doesn't matter what other people's opinions are. Volunteers are going to have opinions based on what they see. True, it isn't a complete picture. But, everyone is entitled to their own opinions and they don't have to get your permission to have an opinion about kids/grades/schools.
They are entitled to their opinions, but they should be mature enough to keep them to themselves. I have found that many of the volunteer moms are busybodies who feel the need to share what they discover in the classroom with other mothers. I find it incredibly offensive that they gossip about early elementary school children with other mothers.
Anonymous wrote:If you are working with kids at math or reading, you are going to be able to tell who is getting it and who isn't. The teachers don't have to "share" info. for a volunteer to figure it out.
If your child is doing his/her best, then be comfortable with that. It doesn't matter what other people's opinions are. Volunteers are going to have opinions based on what they see. True, it isn't a complete picture. But, everyone is entitled to their own opinions and they don't have to get your permission to have an opinion about kids/grades/schools.