Anonymous
Post 04/06/2026 20:54     Subject: Re:Virgina divorce lawyer recommendation?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I want litigation. My husband and I are from Asian background. After 8 years of marriage and 2 children, I learned about his affair with another married woman. I trusted, respected and loved this man but now it appears this was a marriage of convinence for him. He is after every penny I got. I need a strong attorney who is excellent at settlement and can get him for adultry. I have solid and good evidence of his wrong doings.


Nobody cares about adultery. Pick a different battle.


+1 Adultery does not matter. You won't get more in custody or assets. It will still be 50/50. If you litigate, you will take money you could both keep and spend it attorneys instead. Don't be stupid. Keep your money. Mediate and get out. You will lose more if you fight. You seem to think you can "get more" if there is adultery. That is just not true.
Anonymous
Post 04/06/2026 15:58     Subject: Virgina divorce lawyer recommendation?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is a strange thread.


It’s all the same person over several years


And now they’ve randomly bumped it with a “^”
Anonymous
Post 04/06/2026 08:53     Subject: Virgina divorce lawyer recommendation?
^
Anonymous
Post 03/06/2025 22:58     Subject: Virgina divorce lawyer recommendation?
Anonymous wrote:This is a strange thread.


It’s all the same person over several years
Anonymous
Post 03/06/2025 22:57     Subject: Virgina divorce lawyer recommendation?
This thread is over ten years old
All the $$ formula forms are on the county site

put them in excel first — and then negotiate
not hard

assets are 50-50. Lawyers do not rally get you a better price on the house . they really done

I think they win when their clients are stressed or have no brain cells
Anonymous
Post 03/06/2025 22:26     Subject: Re:Virgina divorce lawyer recommendation?
I had David zangrilli for my divorce.
I should have represented myself in my divorce and saved $30K in pointless legal fees. For years, I asked him to revisit the child support amount, but he ignored me and insisted it was correct. Turns out, he never even used the standard formula. I finally had to hire someone else to fix it. What a waste! Could have, would have, should have… Too late for me, but not for you.

Anonymous
Post 07/05/2024 08:24     Subject: Virgina divorce lawyer recommendation?
Posters on 7/4 at 14:42 and 14:46, would you please, please share the names of those attorneys? For the sake of those of us in terribly stressful situations right now trying to hire attorneys? Would be very grateful for that.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2024 14:46     Subject: Virgina divorce lawyer recommendation?
My divorce attorneys had to ask me my kids names in the middle of court. I knew I was in the wrong spot.
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2024 14:43     Subject: Virgina divorce lawyer recommendation?
Are people still complaining about their attorneys since 2019?
Anonymous
Post 07/04/2024 14:42     Subject: Re:Virgina divorce lawyer recommendation?
Anonymous wrote:Do not use Surovell Isaacs & Levy PLC in fairfax

They bled me dry for 10 months. Had entry level clerks working on the case while Scott was never available. Always busy on something else. Unable to interpret financials statements. I had to explain simple stuff to his law firm.

Unless you have 30,000$ to waste do not use Surovell.


I had this experience with another “high conflict” firm. NO Results. Just a lot of invoices. They could not promise anything and they just charged. I would suggest going flat fee to friends. Get in and out. The lawyer I had wanted to argue everything on Fridays at court and she got me nowhere.