Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

OMG - Do you really need to call someone an idiot that you've never even met. You go on to call her crazy and tell her she doesn't belong at a private school. Chill out sister. Maybe you can come up with a clever apology.

I've been sending my three children to private school for 11 years and I regularly ask myself if it's worth it. Some days I think it is, others I don't. I'd like to know what other people think about their decision. But bottom line - this is a Board where anyone can ask anything and that's part of the fun. So be nice and enjoy reading what you want and ignoring what you want.

Same here. Some days I think it might be better to buy them starter houses with the tuition money. Then happier days would come, and I am glad that they are happy where they are.

But WHAT IF your children had just as many happy days at their local public school? That's what I struggle with every day - my kids are happy at their private school, but what if they would be just as happy at one of the best Bethesda elementary schools? I have friends who have switched their kids over, and all of them seem just as happy there.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't think we should stop the "Is it worth it?" threads. For some people 13 or 14 years of private school tuition requires a huge sacrifice. I appreciate that parents are trying to be thoughtful about the decision and do not automatically assume a private school is better and presumably worth the cost. I am coming to the opposite conclusion.

It is a huge sacrifice for almost everybody. It's a ton of money. Yet some of us willingly pay it. I'm in so far for about $250K already and the oldest is only completing 3rd grade.

Maybe there are some private school parents who would send their kids to private without thinking about it, but I have met only one or two families for whom that could be true, and I didn't ask them. The vast majority of families may be very well off but still think about it before committing. Please don't assume those who answer the "worth it" question with a "yes" are all Georgetown socialites who donate millions to save whales or whatever every year and just reflexively sent Paris and Hudson off to school where Mommy and Daddy went.

DH and I both went to public school and he, in particular, believes strongly in public schools. Then we went and actually looked at ours and at our other options and did what was best for our particular kids.

I could probably retire in five years if my kids went to public school. Instead, I will be working for the next 25.

Now I've heard everything!!!

That's ridiculous.

I think OP made an excellent case that the price tag for certain higher priced items is way worth it. And was trying to progress the debate to the next level. Didn't work though for the overly-literal among us.

LOL is it worth it to stop these threads?

Anonymous wrote:I don't think we should stop the "Is it worth it?" threads. For some people 13 or 14 years of private school tuition requires a huge sacrifice. I appreciate that parents are trying to be thoughtful about the decision and do not automatically assume a private school is better and presumably worth the cost. I am coming to the opposite conclusion.

It is a huge sacrifice for almost everybody. It's a ton of money. Yet some of us willingly pay it. I'm in so far for about $250K already and the oldest is only completing 3rd grade.

Maybe there are some private school parents who would send their kids to private without thinking about it, but I have met only one or two families for whom that could be true, and I didn't ask them. The vast majority of families may be very well off but still think about it before committing. Please don't assume those who answer the "worth it" question with a "yes" are all Georgetown socialites who donate millions to save whales or whatever every year and just reflexively sent Paris and Hudson off to school where Mommy and Daddy went.

DH and I both went to public school and he, in particular, believes strongly in public schools. Then we went and actually looked at ours and at our other options and did what was best for our particular kids.

I could probably retire in five years if my kids went to public school. Instead, I will be working for the next 25.

Anonymous wrote:

OMG - Do you really need to call someone an idiot that you've never even met. You go on to call her crazy and tell her she doesn't belong at a private school. Chill out sister. Maybe you can come up with a clever apology.

I've been sending my three children to private school for 11 years and I regularly ask myself if it's worth it. Some days I think it is, others I don't. I'd like to know what other people think about their decision. But bottom line - this is a Board where anyone can ask anything and that's part of the fun. So be nice and enjoy reading what you want and ignoring what you want.

Same here. Some days I think it might be better to buy them starter houses with the tuition money. Then happier days would come, and I am glad that they are happy where they are.

I just asked one of these questions and I really wanted to hear from people whose kids had finished private school to hear if, in hindsight, was it worth it to spend all of that money on school. I am not (yet) and angry person whose kids didn't get in (check back in 2014).

Is it worth it?

Surprise. Under the D.C. facade of egalitarianism are closet West Virginians.

Anonymous wrote:A lot of wealthy people in our area don't need to worry if something is "worth it". They just do it. Some send their kids to St. Pats because there are other kids there like theirs. Maybe they didn't get into Sidwell or Beauvoir...but they can still feel good that their kids are with other advantaged children.

Um . . . I thought the DC area was filled with such educated, everyone's equal, liberal-thinking, better than West Virginia types. If that's really the line of thinking, then why do these same posters want their children to only be educated with other advantaged students?