Anonymous wrote:Wow, dating sounds like a sh!tshow. I'm so sorry.

Anonymous wrote:Happily married 47 year old male here. I almost never even notice young women anymore. I primarily only notice women late 30s and up! My wife is 44 and I just can’t get enough even after 21 years! I’m actually a bit concerned about my seeming non interest in beautiful twenty somethings, but I can’t help it. So don’t worry.

Anonymous wrote:Wow, dating sounds like a sh!tshow. I'm so sorry.

Anonymous wrote:Wow, dating sounds like a sh!tshow. I'm so sorry.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a 40+ nurse in an ER and I meet many eligible men. I usually look like hell during a shift but men must think nurses are sex starved and yes, sometimes we are. Periodically I will take one up on an offer and we have a fun time for a while but my life is so busy a LTR is not in the cards. FWIW single EMTs, often 10+ years younger than me, are amazing.

Welcome UTIs!

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a 40+ nurse in an ER and I meet many eligible men. I usually look like hell during a shift but men must think nurses are sex starved and yes, sometimes we are. Periodically I will take one up on an offer and we have a fun time for a while but my life is so busy a LTR is not in the cards. FWIW single EMTs, often 10+ years younger than me, are amazing.

why you don't have time for LTR? I have seen that with a lot of nurses in their 40s. is it the emotional draining of working as a nurse or physical exhaustion?

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Anonymous wrote:Look, all of us 40+ divorcees are "whores" if you will, both men and women. We don't have a lot of time in the schedule and lots of needs to fit in.

This. Also don't get this "ooh so depressing that women sleep with me" talk. Women have usually had unfulfilled s*x for DECADES before their marriage is over. Add to that that the older generation women married quite inexperienced and obviously women want to have some "fun" after getting out. It helps if they're approaching menopause and don't have to worry about pregnancy either.

Anonymous wrote:I’m a 40+ nurse in an ER and I meet many eligible men. I usually look like hell during a shift but men must think nurses are sex starved and yes, sometimes we are. Periodically I will take one up on an offer and we have a fun time for a while but my life is so busy a LTR is not in the cards. FWIW single EMTs, often 10+ years younger than me, are amazing.

Anonymous wrote:Anecdote time.

The father of one of my son's team mates got separated (in Arlington) and got on the apps like three weeks later after bailing on 'traditional' methods of networking, grocery store small talk etc, and he slept with 32 women in two months.

He said is was zero effort, mid 40s, recent divorcees who were more than happy to sleep with him within an hour of meeting him.

Said it was actually quite depressing

Anonymous wrote:I’m a 40+ nurse in an ER and I meet many eligible men. I usually look like hell during a shift but men must think nurses are sex starved and yes, sometimes we are. Periodically I will take one up on an offer and we have a fun time for a while but my life is so busy a LTR is not in the cards. FWIW single EMTs, often 10+ years younger than me, are amazing.

Anonymous wrote:Where does one go online or in person for casual meetups without commitment? I’m an elder millennial going through a divorce (separated over a year). I was married very young and never participated in modern dating like tinder, etc.

Looking to put myself out there in the most non-commital way as I navigate what life after divorce looks/feels like.

Side q: Am I generalizing or are most older men just looking for young and hot and I’ll be looked over as used goods.