Anonymous wrote:I think many house have wash cloths for this. And basket next to the toilet to collect them and then wash. In theory they aren't really soiled since you should be clean and you're just drying off. I have not tried it.

In Japan the bidets also have a dryer setting that blows warm air.

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Anonymous wrote:Just use a wipe! Done.

Those things need to be made illegal. They either get flushed and clog up sewer systems, or thrown in a trash can with poop on them. Yuck.

I am not a Muslim but I use a lota and dry with TP. Over the years I’ve considered one of the fancy Japanese toilets but the lota system works well enough for me.

Anonymous wrote:Washing with water after pooping is significantly more hygienic than wiping with dry toilet paper. It provides a targeted, gentle cleanse, effectively removing residual fecal matter trapped in the body's natural folds. Additionally, this method reduces skin friction, prevents irritation, and can help minimize the risk of urinary tract infections.

For maximum effectiveness, many people use water followed by a quick pat-dry with a small amount of toilet paper. You can easily adopt this practice by using a plumbed bidet, a handheld bidet sprayer, or a portable travel bidet.

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Anonymous wrote:I get it that TP only can be gross… but I also feel like bidet only is gross. You wouldn’t hop in the shower to wash yourself after taking a sh**, you have to wipe first. Unless you check yourself out with a mirror, how the heck do you know a little hose got everything? If I trusted it enough to get the whole area totally clean, then the water pressure is probably unhealthily strong for my bum.

Correct, these people who think a 'gentle spray' (with no soap and no friction) is actually getting all the feces off are delusional. Use one or more wet wipes and throw them in the trash.

Anonymous wrote:I get it that TP only can be gross… but I also feel like bidet only is gross. You wouldn’t hop in the shower to wash yourself after taking a sh**, you have to wipe first. Unless you check yourself out with a mirror, how the heck do you know a little hose got everything? If I trusted it enough to get the whole area totally clean, then the water pressure is probably unhealthily strong for my bum.

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Anonymous wrote:Its gross that lots if people give oral to partners who doesn't wash after pooping. Unhygienic.

Most people I know don’t have a bidet, but I’m pretty sure everyone showers before being intimate.

Anonymous wrote:Its gross that lots if people give oral to partners who doesn't wash after pooping. Unhygienic.

Anonymous wrote:Just use a wipe! Done.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m just trying to picture this. Is it like: poop, then wipe, then bidet, then more wiping to dry? Or is it like poop, shuffle awkwardly to bidet, use bidet, then wipe dry?

Why not just use a wet wipe, if it’s the former?

It's poop, bidet, wipe to dry. Or just sit there and scroll on your phone for a couple more minutes to air dry.

Wet wipes work too, but as someone who has given birth in the past and now is very sensitive in the pelvic region, the bidet is sooooooo much easier on delicate tissues than wiping is.

Wait - sit where, exactly?

Bidets do not have seats. Are you supposed to just sit right down on the bidet rim ??

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Anonymous wrote:I’m just trying to picture this. Is it like: poop, then wipe, then bidet, then more wiping to dry? Or is it like poop, shuffle awkwardly to bidet, use bidet, then wipe dry?

Why not just use a wet wipe, if it’s the former?

It's poop, bidet, wipe to dry. Or just sit there and scroll on your phone for a couple more minutes to air dry.

Wet wipes work too, but as someone who has given birth in the past and now is very sensitive in the pelvic region, the bidet is sooooooo much easier on delicate tissues than wiping is.