Anonymous wrote:What’s your question?

You had an emotional or sexual affair and you don’t know what to do? You get divorced, you cheated.

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Anonymous wrote:Humans are meant to be serial monogamists. I don’t have the answer. It’s painful.

Totally agree with a twist. I believe humans are meant to have someone as a marriage partner to mate and trust, but are not meant to be monogamist for decades. In other words, you love your spouse but need someone on the side. I can see this handled with couple swapping or a trusted person who acts as a boyfriend or girlfriend. My friends would be shocked if they knew this about me.

I knew it wouldn't take long for someone to bring up cuckolding.

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Anonymous wrote:Humans are meant to be serial monogamists. I don’t have the answer. It’s painful.

Totally agree with a twist. I believe humans are meant to have someone as a marriage partner to mate and trust, but are not meant to be monogamist for decades. In other words, you love your spouse but need someone on the side. I can see this handled with couple swapping or a trusted person who acts as a boyfriend or girlfriend. My friends would be shocked if they knew this about me.

Anonymous wrote:Humans are meant to be serial monogamists. I don’t have the answer. It’s painful.

Anonymous wrote:Humans are meant to be serial monogamists. I don’t have the answer. It’s painful.

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Anonymous wrote:Why is your marriage sexless?

I'm sure OP has been approaching him offering to blow his mind and drain his junk and he's like nah, I'm good.
/s

It happens. My xH had zero interest in sex. He preferred women on screens.

So he did have interest in sex, but he saw your wandering eye and felt your increasing distance, so he disappeared from real life? Sounds like you hurt him and he chose not to live a fantasy, just dream about a woman who wanted to be with him.

Why do you feel the need to write stuff like that? There are some women around who did not have a wandering eye and did everything we could to prevent distance in the marriage and still our husbands reject us but prefer to lust after other women on a screen. It is not our fault.

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Anonymous wrote:Why is your marriage sexless?

I'm sure OP has been approaching him offering to blow his mind and drain his junk and he's like nah, I'm good.
/s

It happens. My xH had zero interest in sex. He preferred women on screens.

So he did have interest in sex, but he saw your wandering eye and felt your increasing distance, so he disappeared from real life? Sounds like you hurt him and he chose not to live a fantasy, just dream about a woman who wanted to be with him.

Anonymous wrote:that I fell in love with ... love of my life ... I have fallen in love with someone else ... now being in love with someone else

lame

Do you have kids, Op?

Anonymous wrote:I had the great pleasure of meeting someone that I fell in love with when I was much younger. I considered him to be the love of my life. Now, decades later, I have fallen in love with someone else. I am still married to DH who now feels like a brother and best friend to me. I still love him but it is different. Our marriage is sexless and likely will never be anything else. I don’t want to hurt my first love…but I am not clear how to keep living with him and loving him as a brother while now being in love with someone else. What to do?