Anonymous wrote:I just dont get why sex is so complicated. Be able to have intercourse well and kiss, caress, and lick well. Its 4 things.

That’s not true at all. Like my husband smells very good to me and does things exactly the way I like them. I can’t imagine ever wanting it from anyone else. Someone could be technically skilled but the chemistry is wrong. I married him for that reason!!
-PP who lives in a place I hate

I just dont get why sex is so complicated. Be able to have intercourse well and kiss, caress, and lick well. Its 4 things.

Anonymous wrote:Great Question

As a man, I've only had (3) really compatible partners out of literally dozens. Finding a woman that actually isn't shy nude, passionately enjoys oral both ways, able to O without toys, and puts in as much effort as me, is truly hard to find. Sadly, most women are just lazy, period.

I could have written this, except the last sentence. I think many women try to match me in bed but don't quite get there. Usually they're still good and sometimes there's great emotional compatibility, which makes up for their inability to read my desires as well as I'd like.

I've had a few women tell me that they felt like I need reading their mind. Most loved it, but one said she found it terrifying! I was not violent or threatening with her at all. I just touched her exactly the way she wanted, or better. She was terrified by the loss of self control..

I hate sexual incompatibility. It happens sometimes. If you really care about someone, bad sex is embarrassing and awkward and depressing.

‘Enjoy the ride’ while it lasts, cause rarely does it last long. Often they become exe’s cause they want far more than you or I will want.

Married to such a guy for many years. Through those years we had fabulous sex, quickies and enjoyed spontaneous sexcapades in many sleazy looking highway motels, just because they looked interesting for an afternoon romp.

Before I knew it, he was wanting to include others in our sex play. First another guy, then a woman, before I knew it, we were dating couples. Threesomes first, then foursomes grew into more-somes. Our guest room became a sex parlor outfitted with benches and couches, complete with mood lighting.

Parties at our home became a thing. We did enjoy to host friends for a cookout and Pool party a few times over the summer. Our pool and hot tub were once our place to rest, relax and recharge, now our once happy place has become a clothing optional party. Our neighbors must think we’ve gone crazy. Their once quiet reserved neighbors are now hosting parties many weekends til the early hours. Our recycle can is overflowing with liquor bottles so much so I take bins full to the dump so our neighbors don’t think we’re a bunch of drunks.

Enjoy that good sex while you can, just don’t dive-in over your head and marry into it.

Yes my husband. Probably was a big reason we were both so sure about getting married. even when other things are irritating us, the sex just works (both get very uninhibited).

Yes, I did. He’s not relationship material, unfortunately, and the breakup was nasty and left me traumatized. But a few years of outstanding sexual compatibility, kinks and all, and total intimacy was something worth experiencing.

Anonymous wrote:Yes. We were a disaster in other ways but 100% on the same page in the bedroom including preferring quickies and me finishing second via oral. Glorious and still missed many years later.

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Anonymous wrote:I still think about him from time to time. It was the best sex of my life.

However, we were not on the same page about many things, like where we prefer to live geographically, level of ambition, and we often had arguments as we both like being in control. Haven't spoken to him in many years and are now both married to other people.

I married that guy and I live in a place I hate, he has the same job he had in his 20s, and I have to force him to travel practically at gunpoint because he hates travel so much….but the sex is still great. It’s kind of worth it?

Honestly, I am a much happier person if I’m getting it right. I would sacrifice a lot for that kind of love and attention.

Yes. I’m so sad I’ll never see him again.

Yes and we r happily married 15 years and counting.

Anonymous wrote:I still think about him from time to time. It was the best sex of my life.

However, we were not on the same page about many things, like where we prefer to live geographically, level of ambition, and we often had arguments as we both like being in control. Haven't spoken to him in many years and are now both married to other people.

I married that guy and I live in a place I hate, he has the same job he had in his 20s, and I have to force him to travel practically at gunpoint because he hates travel so much….but the sex is still great. It’s kind of worth it?

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Anonymous wrote:Great Question

As a man, I've only had (3) really compatible partners out of literally dozens. Finding a woman that actually isn't shy nude, passionately enjoys oral both ways, able to O without toys, and puts in as much effort as me, is truly hard to find. Sadly, most women are just lazy, period.

Ha! I am all of these without knowing it is rare! I hate toys- I find they hurt. But I otherwise o pretty easily. Sorry gentlemen I have been married a long time and you are missing out! 😂🤣😂

That doesn’t mean you have to deprive us of your talents!

Yes, with one partner. I don’t be love giving oral typically, but with him I can’t get enough. The moment we are alone I jump into his pants and start sucking. I never had anyone else turn me into such an animal. Years later, still the same feeling. He is passionate, giving, and I to the same light kink that I am. Our sex life is out of this world.

Anonymous wrote:Great Question

As a man, I've only had (3) really compatible partners out of literally dozens. Finding a woman that actually isn't shy nude, passionately enjoys oral both ways, able to O without toys, and puts in as much effort as me, is truly hard to find. Sadly, most women are just lazy, period.

Ha! I am all of these without knowing it is rare! I hate toys- I find they hurt. But I otherwise o pretty easily. Sorry gentlemen I have been married a long time and you are missing out! 😂🤣😂

Anonymous wrote:Great Question

As a man, I've only had (3) really compatible partners out of literally dozens. Finding a woman that actually isn't shy nude, passionately enjoys oral both ways, able to O without toys, and puts in as much effort as me, is truly hard to find. Sadly, most women are just lazy, period.

All this! Fortunately I was able to find this in my AP