Omg he’s going to love Austin and leaving these small-minded idiots behind. Excellent choice of a college.

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Anonymous wrote:My kid was lucky to be going to one of his top choices of college (UT Austin). He’s a normal high stats kid with decent ECs, so we’re realistic about his chance for the T30. While his pipe dream school is my alma mater, UT Austin is his realistic dream school. We also like the area a lot. Unfortunately last week a classmate of his (they’re friends for some time, but have sort of drifted apart) gave him a lecture on why he would choose a college in Texas and went on to insult all Texans. I was like, WTF?! How to deal with crazy people like that?

No WTH is wrong with you?

Sending a kid to Texas in this political climate is stupidity and terrible parenting.

You think your kid will get a job in four years in a state run by Paxton and Abbott ??

Texas is absolutely booming…

It is simply amazing what politics does to some peoples’ brains.

https://www.fox4news.com/news/texas-tech-drop-courses-centered-on-sex-gender-studies

Anonymous wrote:The kid did not insult the college choice, or UT Austin.

The kid stated that he would not want to live in the state of Texas and doesn't understand why your kid would.

This is not a college issue. This is a culture/political issue.

I know that I had concern last year about my daughter going to college in a red state when abortion bans were popping up.

+1. People say the same things about Florida. Some states just have bad reputations.

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Anonymous wrote:I mean, the state of Texas and many Texans do indeed suck. Your kid is probably best off responding by pointing out he’s focused on the school, not the state, and it’s in Austin at least.

Person who wrote this is brain dead. The advice they give is also idiotic - become defensive and justify that you are going to a good school although it's in a bad state.... So stupid.

OP: why do you care what your kid's friend says? Who cares, really, who cares. Is your kid happy? That's what matters.

Lol found the Texan.

Anonymous wrote:My kid was lucky to be going to one of his top choices of college (UT Austin). He’s a normal high stats kid with decent ECs, so we’re realistic about his chance for the T30. While his pipe dream school is my alma mater, UT Austin is his realistic dream school. We also like the area a lot. Unfortunately last week a classmate of his (they’re friends for some time, but have sort of drifted apart) gave him a lecture on why he would choose a college in Texas and went on to insult all Texans. I was like, WTF?! How to deal with crazy people like that?

response: "well it is good thing YOU aren't the one going to school in Texas then. I hope you are happy with your college." end of conversation.

You tell your kid to just ignore those comments and it’s a good learning opportunity that closed-minded people come in all flavors - even those who consider themselves to be progressive and “open minded”.

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Anonymous wrote:The kid did not insult the college choice, or UT Austin.

The kid stated that he would not want to live in the state of Texas and doesn't understand why your kid would.

This is not a college issue. This is a culture/political issue.

I know that I had concern last year about my daughter going to college in a red state when abortion bans were popping up.

I have these same issues. But if someone told me they had made a decision to go to a school in that state, I would keep my mouth shut and not question the decision. They are not changing the decision at this point so it is not a necessary comment. Particularly from someone you don't well. I have close friends who I would trust to make comments like that (though they too would probably make the comment when there was a chance to course correct). But randos like this just need to play along.

I'm not claiming that this classmate was in the right. I'm just clarifying for folks that this isn't somebody insulting the school. It isn't that different from somebody telling somebody going to Cornell that they couldn't go to school some place that cold....

Anonymous wrote:The kid did not insult the college choice, or UT Austin.

The kid stated that he would not want to live in the state of Texas and doesn't understand why your kid would.

This is not a college issue. This is a culture/political issue.

I know that I had concern last year about my daughter going to college in a red state when abortion bans were popping up.

I have these same issues. But if someone told me they had made a decision to go to a school in that state, I would keep my mouth shut and not question the decision. They are not changing the decision at this point so it is not a necessary comment. Particularly from someone you don't well. I have close friends who I would trust to make comments like that (though they too would probably make the comment when there was a chance to course correct). But randos like this just need to play along.

The kid did not insult the college choice, or UT Austin.

The kid stated that he would not want to live in the state of Texas and doesn't understand why your kid would.

This is not a college issue. This is a culture/political issue.

I know that I had concern last year about my daughter going to college in a red state when abortion bans were popping up.

There was a thread similar to this a few months ago about a kid who said "the only reason you got in is you are a legacy."

Some people have zero class. If you don't have anything nice to say, say nothing. The kid could have turned down a full ride to Harvard for Podunk State and to their face you should still act happy for them unless perhaps you have a very close relationship, which doesn't seem to be the case here.

It is like if you go to someone's home for a meal and it tastes disgusting - you still act gracious and try to eat as much as you can. This is Life 101.

Where is this kid going to school? Seems like a place I would want to avoid.

When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

We don't particularly like southern states, OP, for the climate and their politics. Texas in particular is known to have completely toxic, batshit crazy politicians, such as the corrupt bully Paxton.

But my kids would not say that out loud to someone going to Texas or anywhere else they don't like. Your child's friend was rude.

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Anonymous wrote:I mean, the state of Texas and many Texans do indeed suck. Your kid is probably best off responding by pointing out he’s focused on the school, not the state, and it’s in Austin at least.

Person who wrote this is brain dead. The advice they give is also idiotic - become defensive and justify that you are going to a good school although it's in a bad state.... So stupid.

OP: why do you care what your kid's friend says? Who cares, really, who cares. Is your kid happy? That's what matters.

It’s amazing these anti-Texas, mentally deficient parrots can get through life without walking off the cliff with the rest of the lemmings.

Anonymous wrote:I mean, the state of Texas and many Texans do indeed suck. Your kid is probably best off responding by pointing out he’s focused on the school, not the state, and it’s in Austin at least.

Person who wrote this is brain dead. The advice they give is also idiotic - become defensive and justify that you are going to a good school although it's in a bad state.... So stupid.

OP: why do you care what your kid's friend says? Who cares, really, who cares. Is your kid happy? That's what matters.

Anonymous wrote:My kid was lucky to be going to one of his top choices of college (UT Austin). He’s a normal high stats kid with decent ECs, so we’re realistic about his chance for the T30. While his pipe dream school is my alma mater, UT Austin is his realistic dream school. We also like the area a lot. Unfortunately last week a classmate of his (they’re friends for some time, but have sort of drifted apart) gave him a lecture on why he would choose a college in Texas and went on to insult all Texans. I was like, WTF?! How to deal with crazy people like that?

How do you normally handle when a co-worker, neighbor, extended family etc says something objectionable? Dear God people.

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Anonymous wrote:My kid was lucky to be going to one of his top choices of college (UT Austin). He’s a normal high stats kid with decent ECs, so we’re realistic about his chance for the T30. While his pipe dream school is my alma mater, UT Austin is his realistic dream school. We also like the area a lot. Unfortunately last week a classmate of his (they’re friends for some time, but have sort of drifted apart) gave him a lecture on why he would choose a college in Texas and went on to insult all Texans. I was like, WTF?! How to deal with crazy people like that?

No WTH is wrong with you?

Sending a kid to Texas in this political climate is stupidity and terrible parenting.

You think your kid will get a job in four years in a state run by Paxton and Abbott ??

Texas is absolutely booming…

It is simply amazing what politics does to some peoples’ brains.