Send them a warm note congratulating them on their engagement. Save your gift money for the shower and wedding gifts.

Anonymous wrote:My niece just got engaged. She and her fiance are almost sge 30, own a home and a dog together, and have good jobs (they seem to have more discretionary spending than I do, haha).

Any ideas of something to send as an engagement gift? They are not registered and I asked my brother what they might like and he had no ideas.

You are being extra. Ask yourself why?

Depends on the state but check if a total wine near them will deliver, or gift card to one

Send flowers and call it a day!

Stuff is out. Don't assume what someone's taste is. If you want them to get something for their home, just give a gift card and let them pick it out. If you so food, maybe something like fruit (not chopped fruit which can harbor bacteria). If you know they have a favorite restaurant a gift card there is nice.

Anonymous wrote:It has never occurred to me to get anyone an engagement gift.

+1
Unless, I am invited to an engagement party with great wine and food.

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Anonymous wrote:As Ever has a package of 3 bottles of vine that’s very tasty for $100. I also like it because it’s packed in a very elegant package 😊

You can easily buy wine at that price point and quality in the grocery store though.

This is a special occasion. The package of the gift set is really nice.

For a special occasion, you would want the wine to be special. So one bottle of something nice.

Don't get me wrong, I drink wine of the As Ever quality, but Whispering Angel from the grocery store is just as good.