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Anonymous wrote:I assume my DS is an anomaly but wondered if other folks have seen this. I have a 11 year old that absolutely loved the game. He plays for a large academy and practices everyday either alone or with his team. A few years ago, he was in the 5th team of the academy but rose the ranks progressively and is now a starter in the 2nd team. It usually takes him 2 games with any new coach to convince him that he should start every game.
However, whenever my son goes to a tryout with a different academy, he will not get any offers (even for their lowest team with kids that started playing last year).
I assume that the reason is that he is not as fluid as other players that were born with god given ability, but he more than makes up for it with his work rate and consistency.
I wonder if other families have experienced this themselves.

To be clear, there is only one academy in the DMV…that is DCU and they don’t have a 5th team (even though they might play like it sometimes). Stop calling clubs academies just because they label something “academy”. You should look up the difference yourself so you stop sounding like a dope.

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Anonymous wrote:I assume my DS is an anomaly but wondered if other folks have seen this. I have a 11 year old that absolutely loved the game. He plays for a large academy and practices everyday either alone or with his team. A few years ago, he was in the 5th team of the academy but rose the ranks progressively and is now a starter in the 2nd team. It usually takes him 2 games with any new coach to convince him that he should start every game.
However, whenever my son goes to a tryout with a different academy, he will not get any offers (even for their lowest team with kids that started playing last year).
I assume that the reason is that he is not as fluid as other players that were born with god given ability, but he more than makes up for it with his work rate and consistency.
I wonder if other families have experienced this themselves.

I do think tryouts are often structured to favor attackers.

But what defensive position does he play? Is he a RB perchance?

DP but curious why you ask? Is there something about the RB position that makes it harder to stand out at tryouts?

My view is that most coaches think they can make a really good RB out of a skilled player at other positions so they don’t worry about getting that position slotted in their team. They’re going to be needing a good CAM, a good goalie, a couple good CBs, a strong goal scorer, and then left footed LBs are hard to come by - but they don’t particularly care if the RB in their starting XI has gotten used to the position yet. So I think if you go into a tryout they are comparing you to the entire midfield and it’s a harder sell. Just a personal view that it’s a tough position to try out as.

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Anonymous wrote:I assume my DS is an anomaly but wondered if other folks have seen this. I have a 11 year old that absolutely loved the game. He plays for a large academy and practices everyday either alone or with his team. A few years ago, he was in the 5th team of the academy but rose the ranks progressively and is now a starter in the 2nd team. It usually takes him 2 games with any new coach to convince him that he should start every game.
However, whenever my son goes to a tryout with a different academy, he will not get any offers (even for their lowest team with kids that started playing last year).
I assume that the reason is that he is not as fluid as other players that were born with god given ability, but he more than makes up for it with his work rate and consistency.
I wonder if other families have experienced this themselves.

I do think tryouts are often structured to favor attackers.

But what defensive position does he play? Is he a RB perchance?

He is a CB and maintains his position. After being a winger/attacker until winter 2025, he was switched to CB and was such a hit in that position (excellent timing on the challenge by attackers and great poise on the buildout) that the club started promoting him heavily. I assume because there are so few natural defenders at this age. He currently plays against RL team without issue.
Having said that: no offers of any kind from other clubs even for their lowest teams.

This is surprising then. You previously said he was big and our experience is that big, strong CBs are in super high demand and I would have expected that to be an advantage.

Is he quiet? Coaches typically look at that position to be a loud, confident leader, so if he isn’t projecting that at a tryout - I am stumped by why you are experiencing.

The OP mentioned other players having fluidity or God-given ability which makes me think that their DS looks awkward on the ball. They also said they train regularly so I'm assuming the kid has technical skills but that's a big assumption. I don't think their technical skills are shining at tryouts. OP, how are your DS technical skills? Are they just effective because they can muscle players off the ball and boot it down? Are they taking on 1 v. 1s and also moving and dribbling the ball up the field and creating attacking plays? FWIW, on our MLSnext team, our starting defenders dispossess the ball from attackers and move it down the field through a variety of skills, dribbling, passing, and rarely boot it down without intention.

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Anonymous wrote:No, tackle football is for the most athletic kids. Mediocre athletes can do ok in soccer if they work hard.

Haha this is amazingly silly. I grew up playing football and my kid plays soccer. Soccer is a much tougher sport athletically and physically more demanding.

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Anonymous wrote:I assume my DS is an anomaly but wondered if other folks have seen this. I have a 11 year old that absolutely loved the game. He plays for a large academy and practices everyday either alone or with his team. A few years ago, he was in the 5th team of the academy but rose the ranks progressively and is now a starter in the 2nd team. It usually takes him 2 games with any new coach to convince him that he should start every game.
However, whenever my son goes to a tryout with a different academy, he will not get any offers (even for their lowest team with kids that started playing last year).
I assume that the reason is that he is not as fluid as other players that were born with god given ability, but he more than makes up for it with his work rate and consistency.
I wonder if other families have experienced this themselves.

I do think tryouts are often structured to favor attackers.

But what defensive position does he play? Is he a RB perchance?

He is a CB and maintains his position. After being a winger/attacker until winter 2025, he was switched to CB and was such a hit in that position (excellent timing on the challenge by attackers and great poise on the buildout) that the club started promoting him heavily. I assume because there are so few natural defenders at this age. He currently plays against RL team without issue.
Having said that: no offers of any kind from other clubs even for their lowest teams.

This is surprising then. You previously said he was big and our experience is that big, strong CBs are in super high demand and I would have expected that to be an advantage.

Is he quiet? Coaches typically look at that position to be a loud, confident leader, so if he isn’t projecting that at a tryout - I am stumped by why you are experiencing.

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Anonymous wrote:I assume my DS is an anomaly but wondered if other folks have seen this. I have a 11 year old that absolutely loved the game. He plays for a large academy and practices everyday either alone or with his team. A few years ago, he was in the 5th team of the academy but rose the ranks progressively and is now a starter in the 2nd team. It usually takes him 2 games with any new coach to convince him that he should start every game.
However, whenever my son goes to a tryout with a different academy, he will not get any offers (even for their lowest team with kids that started playing last year).
I assume that the reason is that he is not as fluid as other players that were born with god given ability, but he more than makes up for it with his work rate and consistency.
I wonder if other families have experienced this themselves.

I do think tryouts are often structured to favor attackers.

But what defensive position does he play? Is he a RB perchance?

DP but curious why you ask? Is there something about the RB position that makes it harder to stand out at tryouts?

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Anonymous wrote:I assume my DS is an anomaly but wondered if other folks have seen this. I have a 11 year old that absolutely loved the game. He plays for a large academy and practices everyday either alone or with his team. A few years ago, he was in the 5th team of the academy but rose the ranks progressively and is now a starter in the 2nd team. It usually takes him 2 games with any new coach to convince him that he should start every game.
However, whenever my son goes to a tryout with a different academy, he will not get any offers (even for their lowest team with kids that started playing last year).
I assume that the reason is that he is not as fluid as other players that were born with god given ability, but he more than makes up for it with his work rate and consistency.
I wonder if other families have experienced this themselves.

I do think tryouts are often structured to favor attackers.

But what defensive position does he play? Is he a RB perchance?

He is a CB and maintains his position. After being a winger/attacker until winter 2025, he was switched to CB and was such a hit in that position (excellent timing on the challenge by attackers and great poise on the buildout) that the club started promoting him heavily. I assume because there are so few natural defenders at this age. He currently plays against RL team without issue.
Having said that: no offers of any kind from other clubs even for their lowest teams.

Anonymous wrote:No, tackle football is for the most athletic kids. Mediocre athletes can do ok in soccer if they work hard.

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Anonymous wrote:The issue my son had at tryouts was he'd try to play his normal game in tryouts and I used to tell him, you need to dig deep in your bag during tryouts this isn't practice. Don't be a ball hog but you need to show off all aspects of your game whether it's speed, passing, shooting etc. He never listened but I guess it wasn't meant to be because he now plays football.

Sorry to hear that. Condolences

Ehh no worries, he's the more athletically gifted of my kids but doesn't have drive. My other is the workhorse and is thriving in soccer plus the football schedule is more forgiving so we don't have intersecting tournaments and what not lol.

Seems you have it backwards.

Doesn't football need the physical workhorse and soccer the athletic one?

Lol I meant workhorse as in the drive and willingness to do extra outside of practices.

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Anonymous wrote:The issue my son had at tryouts was he'd try to play his normal game in tryouts and I used to tell him, you need to dig deep in your bag during tryouts this isn't practice. Don't be a ball hog but you need to show off all aspects of your game whether it's speed, passing, shooting etc. He never listened but I guess it wasn't meant to be because he now plays football.

Sorry to hear that. Condolences

Ehh no worries, he's the more athletically gifted of my kids but doesn't have drive. My other is the workhorse and is thriving in soccer plus the football schedule is more forgiving so we don't have intersecting tournaments and what not lol.

Seems you have it backwards.

Doesn't football need the physical workhorse and soccer the athletic one?

Anonymous wrote:No, tackle football is for the most athletic kids. Mediocre athletes can do ok in soccer if they work hard.

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Anonymous wrote:The issue my son had at tryouts was he'd try to play his normal game in tryouts and I used to tell him, you need to dig deep in your bag during tryouts this isn't practice. Don't be a ball hog but you need to show off all aspects of your game whether it's speed, passing, shooting etc. He never listened but I guess it wasn't meant to be because he now plays football.

Sorry to hear that. Condolences

Ehh no worries, he's the more athletically gifted of my kids but doesn't have drive. My other is the workhorse and is thriving in soccer plus the football schedule is more forgiving so we don't have intersecting tournaments and what not lol.

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Anonymous wrote:The issue my son had at tryouts was he'd try to play his normal game in tryouts and I used to tell him, you need to dig deep in your bag during tryouts this isn't practice. Don't be a ball hog but you need to show off all aspects of your game whether it's speed, passing, shooting etc. He never listened but I guess it wasn't meant to be because he now plays football.

Sorry to hear that. Condolences

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Anonymous wrote:I assume my DS is an anomaly but wondered if other folks have seen this. I have a 11 year old that absolutely loved the game. He plays for a large academy and practices everyday either alone or with his team. A few years ago, he was in the 5th team of the academy but rose the ranks progressively and is now a starter in the 2nd team. It usually takes him 2 games with any new coach to convince him that he should start every game.
However, whenever my son goes to a tryout with a different academy, he will not get any offers (even for their lowest team with kids that started playing last year).
I assume that the reason is that he is not as fluid as other players that were born with god given ability, but he more than makes up for it with his work rate and consistency.
I wonder if other families have experienced this themselves.

I do think tryouts are often structured to favor attackers.

But what defensive position does he play? Is he a RB perchance?