Anonymous
03/13/2026 23:16
Subject: Lying about finances and debt
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:my ex-fiance used to be like this and had over 80K worth of credit card or personal debt. Her issue is same - she has a spending problem and spent 1-2x on stupid crap and hoarding, cosmetic stuff etc.
There was a few times she had problems in paying bills and I had to loan her money too.
woah! I am not getting in to a relationship with someone if they have this much CC debt.
You would be surprised how one partner sticks other with a big bill.
Anonymous
03/13/2026 13:30
Subject: Lying about finances and debt
OP, you need legal advice. Spousal debt is not one person's debt, typically.
Anonymous
03/13/2026 12:10
Subject: Lying about finances and debt
Anonymous wrote:my ex-fiance used to be like this and had over 80K worth of credit card or personal debt. Her issue is same - she has a spending problem and spent 1-2x on stupid crap and hoarding, cosmetic stuff etc.
There was a few times she had problems in paying bills and I had to loan her money too.
woah! I am not getting in to a relationship with someone if they have this much CC debt.
Anonymous
03/13/2026 11:38
Subject: Lying about finances and debt
Anonymous wrote:Does he have adhd? My husband was bad with money before I met him and early in our relationship. He is better now. For years, he had money sent to his checking account which was all that he could spend each pay period. As he has gotten older, he has gotten better.
my ex-gf has ADHD and very impulsive for online purchases.