Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 07:07     Subject: What's your cutoff age for too old to date?
Anonymous wrote:52 yr old male here I don’t date women over 35.

Creeper…
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 04:07     Subject: What's your cutoff age for too old to date?
Anonymous wrote:I noticed that fewer women swiped right on me after I turned 60, and those who did often seemed less interested in going out with me again. I must not be as appealing as I was just a few years ago.

I agree with the people who say that attractive women in their 40s are still in great demand. If you're an exceptionally attractive woman and in your 50s, you're also going to have great options. Unfortunately a lot of women start to look haggard and even slightly masculine in their 50s.


Not ALL women - look at Jennifer Lopez.

Or Heather Graham.

Heck even Kris Jenner looks hotter at 70.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 04:04     Subject: Re:What's your cutoff age for too old to date?

I would maybe up the ante to possibly 60-65.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2026 12:15     Subject: What's your cutoff age for too old to date?
I noticed that fewer women swiped right on me after I turned 60, and those who did often seemed less interested in going out with me again. I must not be as appealing as I was just a few years ago.

I agree with the people who say that attractive women in their 40s are still in great demand. If you're an exceptionally attractive woman and in your 50s, you're also going to have great options. Unfortunately a lot of women start to look haggard and even slightly masculine in their 50s.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2026 12:04     Subject: What's your cutoff age for too old to date?
Anonymous wrote:I'm a woman in my early 50s. I assume that lacking amazing looks or significant independent wealth, I am nobody's target audience. It's oddly freeing.

I think it is reasonable to set whatever parameters you want. They can always be adjusted if it isn't working out as planned.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2026 09:33     Subject: What's your cutoff age for too old to date?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Lol, this is funny as I'm a man in the same age group. I know lots of active professional men in their 40s to 60s, and they don't want to date above about 40. They've got the wealth to make that play, so more power to them.



Great. That leaves the best Lovers for me. I'm 60's with power to play. Sex with a 30's female usually has a better body, but not nearly as good a lover as 40-60.


Nice try, lady. Tryna start an urban myth on DCUM that older ladies are peak lovers.

When Ronnie McDowell sang about Older Women, he was talking about ladies in their 30s, not when the bloom had completely fallen from the rose.

You didn’t know that women are more beautiful and sexually attractive after menopause on DCUM?
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2026 09:20     Subject: Re:What's your cutoff age for too old to date?
Anonymous wrote:I’m a 59 yo woman in a relationship with a 53 yo man. When I was in my late 40s I dated up to 8 years older and 8 years younger. But at this age, I wouldn’t date someone more than 2-3 years older than me.


+1 I'm 55; DH is 61. If he were to pass and *if* I were to start dating, I would do max 3 years older. DH and I both have always appeared younger than our age, but that "younger" difference is becoming smaller every year.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2026 08:14     Subject: Re:What's your cutoff age for too old to date?
To add to above - I believe the women here who say they date way younger men as I experienced these “propositions”. OLD erased age and looks limits and attractive women have an endless stream of free sex services from attractive men who are not yet ready to commit to women their age. If women don’t need money and just happy with men taking them on dates, they can continue it well into late 50s as long as they want sex.
Thus the chances of a rich 60 yo man to land a well off attractive 50 yo woman are zero. The only way to get puss$y is if she needs money
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2026 08:06     Subject: Re:What's your cutoff age for too old to date?
Anonymous wrote:I agree that aging is a negative factor, but some women are much more attractive than others, so if you can land a top-1% beauty by going ten years older, that’s a win. So having strict age cutoffs is dumb.


When I first went on OLD I discovered that there is a class of younger men who are hunting pretty older women to get high quality sex basically.
I initially thought they were cat finishing (the men looked hot and were 10-20 years younger so I thought why they contact me?). They were real - just hot suburban guys who probably limited in local options. They would offer taking out on dates, flowers and stuff, pay for all of it if I sleep with them. Obviously, both understand it’s temporary as he’s 27-35 and I’m 45. But if sex is continuous and the young men wound go exclusive until older woman meets someone from her social circle and more age appropriate. They don’t want to get married yet so it’s the way to delay dating younger women who want kids and marriage
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2026 07:33     Subject: Re:What's your cutoff age for too old to date?
I agree that aging is a negative factor, but some women are much more attractive than others, so if you can land a top-1% beauty by going ten years older, that’s a win. So having strict age cutoffs is dumb.
Anonymous
Post 03/07/2026 00:17     Subject: What's your cutoff age for too old to date?
+/- 10 years
Anonymous
Post 03/06/2026 21:57     Subject: What's your cutoff age for too old to date?
Anonymous wrote:My cutoff has been 28 for the last 30 years. Never found a reason to change it. The heart wants what it wants.


What’s your age ?
Anonymous
Post 03/06/2026 21:51     Subject: What's your cutoff age for too old to date?
I am 51. My age range is 45-59 with no young kids. Teens are fine (aka age where they can be home alone). Unfortunately I am highly allergic to animals and it seems that pretty much every single man from 45-50 has a dog!
Anonymous
Post 03/06/2026 21:34     Subject: What's your cutoff age for too old to date?
Anonymous wrote:Scientifically, 60 is the time of major decline.


So younger than that
Anonymous
Post 03/06/2026 20:09     Subject: What's your cutoff age for too old to date?
Anonymous wrote:37, I'll go up to 45. I'll go north of 45 if he has a boat.


The yacht clause. I like it.