Anonymous wrote:You can make him not your boyfriend and then it would be impossible for him to cheat on you.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What did your mother say?
I’d like to leave but he’s still a nice partner and treats me well, so I accept his apologies but I don’t know what to do in this situation, how long more to take it.
She said that he doesn’t deserve me and that she always knew that I was a whre.
Anonymous wrote:Babe. So, I had a similar BF. I ignored my gut and stayed. Eventually, I caught him cheating while I was literally giving birth to his child. Still didn't leave for another 3 years, when I caught him cheating for the god knows how many time.
The whole "but YOU did XYZ!" is straight out of the cheater's playbook. Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. It's to get you to shut up and not hold him accountable.
Leave. It's not worth it. He's going to cheat again, and it's up to you whether you end it now or years from now. Now is better.