I wouldn’t mind if my kids stayed single forever. Especially my daughters. Marrying can be such a drag down. I’d rather they be independent.

We watch The Amazing Race together. There are great examples of good marriages there and also terrible ones. We talk about the communication between the partners and how respectful and supportive they are, or not.

Regardless of if your adult children marry or not, they need to become worthy candidates for marriage.

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Anonymous wrote:Marry partner from intact family. Children of divorced parents are pretty messed up.

I’d rather my child marry a child of divorce than someone raised by you. You teach your kids that certain people are lost causes and not worthy of human flourishing?

Ok. May your wish be granted. Let your kid marry child of divorce and lost causes. If you and yours have the energy to get such people to "human flourishing" then more nutritional supplementation to you.

I will tell my child to not marry yours. Happy?