How are you going to afford child care for 4 kids (or is one person staying at home or is there family)?

Anonymous wrote:Lolol you have no idea how bad the 8 years they are in high school are going to be. 1000x worse than the toddler years.

My first thought too! I only have two teens and I’m always exhausted (the late night chats, sports pickups, and homework help combined with getting up early for work and perimenopause insomnia) and I’m awake worried about something - academic, friend drama, etc.

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Anonymous wrote:Why?

We wanted 4 kids close in age. Started when we were 35 so knew we needed to do it fast and didn’t want multiples.

So old to be doing this

lol. This is the DC area not Provo. Everyone I know had kids 30+

Anonymous wrote:This feels like you are trying to start something- not in a good way. Consider yourself lucky and focus on your kids and your spouse.

Most people would not want kids this close in age. My kids are asleep. I’m pregnant and bored. My wife is doing some work. I thought this would be fun. Going to sleep within the hour.

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Anonymous wrote:Why?

We wanted 4 kids close in age. Started when we were 35 so knew we needed to do it fast and didn’t want multiples.

So old to be doing this

Anonymous wrote:I’ll bite.

Why do you call the 3 year old a 36-month old.

Because for this AMA it shows how close in age they are. Usually I say she just turned 3.

Anonymous wrote:That seems really sad. Your husband sounds abusive.

This

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Anonymous wrote:Do you or will you have help? Do you have a partner? Any of them adopted? Are these all planned?

Yes we have a full time nanny. I have a wife who carried our oldest and third child. All incredibly planned 9 months apart via RIVF.

Mom of one here (by choice).

Two moms (and help) is the only way I would even consider it!

Sounds insane - but also potentially a lot of fun with the right personalities (not mine!)

This feels like you are trying to start something- not in a good way. Consider yourself lucky and focus on your kids and your spouse.

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Why didn't you explain that you were two women each birthing two children in your original post?

Why would I need to? I said AMA and people made assumptions right off the back.

That's not an AMA. It's a teaser.

Anonymous wrote:I’ll bite.

Why do you call the 3 year old a 36-month old.

DP, but this is a dumb question. It's to show that the 18-month-old and the 36-month-old are 18 months apart.

Otherwise a 3-year-old could range from 18 to 29 months older.

I’ll bite.

Why do you call the 3 year old a 36-month old.

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Anonymous wrote:Any C sections? How old are you?

No. 38. This is our last one. Also I’ve only given birth to one this is my second pregnancy.

You hired surrogates? BS troll.

Yes, there are zero other ways a woman could have a child without birthing it!

Nope.

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Why didn't you explain that you were two women each birthing two children in your original post?

Why would I need to? I said AMA and people made assumptions right off the back.

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Why didn't you explain that you were two women each birthing two children in your original post?

C'mon now. Lesbians like a little pot stirring! Not as much as the gays, but still.