The pet sitter obviously doesn’t think she did anything wrong if she asked you to look for her charger that she left there. Maybe she did sleep in your room. Maybe she sat in there with a pet. Doesn’t seem like she did anything to her worked up over.

Just ask her instead of getting so bent out of shape.

Anonymous wrote:The dog sitter found the dog on your bed. She went into your room to keep the dog company and realized her phone was dead so she plugged it in.

This is probably the answer.

This is the answer! Gives a chance for her to say the bedroom as she might not know you you didn’t want her in there. If you go with the accusatory, passive aggressive version, it might have been a misunderstanding and you just lost a valued pet sitter. Haven’t you all watched “Threes Company”?!

"I checked the guest room and didn't see it! Any idea where you might have left it plugged in?"

Return it. Assume she was in your room or on your bed. Do not ask. Sitters are hard to find. You likely can't be choosey.

I would ask.

Have you asked?

Anonymous wrote:OP you are crazy. What the H difference does it make where she slept!

+100

Anonymous wrote:So you trust this person in your home for two weeks as the person responsible for your pet but charging their phone in your room is taboo?

+1. She stayed in your home for two weeks. Obviously she slept in your room. There’s no mystery here. But if it’s that big of a deal to you consider boarding your dog next time.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you have a good, reliable dog sitter that you can leave your dog with for 15 days and not worry, then I think you need to not care about this. So she sat on your bed, probably with the pet. So what. Change the sheets and move on.

Absolutely this

+1. Finding someone you trust to care for your dog and live in your home for 2+ weeks is not easy. I would not blow it all up over charging a phone in my bedroom. If this dog is anything like my dogs, they spend a lot of time in that room.

I would assume she was hanging out with the dog on the bed. I’d be pleased tbh.
Ask or don’t. But I wouldn’t be annoyed by it.

So you trust this person in your home for two weeks as the person responsible for your pet but charging their phone in your room is taboo?

No I would not ask her.

I am sure there is a logical reason that she chose that outlet to charge her phone.

It doesn’t appear that she is trying to cover anything up.

OP you are crazy. What the H difference does it make where she slept!

Anonymous wrote:If you have a good, reliable dog sitter that you can leave your dog with for 15 days and not worry, then I think you need to not care about this. So she sat on your bed, probably with the pet. So what. Change the sheets and move on.

Absolutely this

My dogs love love love my bed. I could see a sitter wanting to hang out with my dogs in my room for sure. Esp when I am gone.