Anonymous
02/10/2026 20:12
Subject: When did you stop correcting on here?
I no longer bother.
You can tell it’s the same few ppl posting now.
You can tell it’s the same few ppl posting now.
Anonymous
02/10/2026 20:01
Subject: When did you stop correcting on here?
I try to post facts and helpful tips and correct misinformation but I’m losing patience. I took the time to write a thoughtful post sharing what worked for us after two kids successful college admissions processes. Was promptly attacked so wondered why I even bothered.
Anonymous
02/10/2026 19:40
Subject: When did you stop correcting on here?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The trolls lure poster to engage with toxic bait. It's some kind of insane game to them.
I truly wish they would back off, because like a lot of us, this website has the potential to be really helpful!
The problem is that people can’t help but take the bait.
Exactly. Once again, just report the trolls. Stop engaging and wasting everyone’s time.
I agree with this.
Anonymous
02/10/2026 16:48
Subject: When did you stop correcting on here?
Anonymous wrote:I agree. It's exhausting.
People constantly say incorrect things in an authoritative manner about an Ivy that my kid attends (when they have no connection to the school themselves).
"well, at this school... XYZ." Sometimes it's just stuff about the students based on the poster's experience in 1992 and other times it's factually incorrrect stuff. I often correct them but it gets exhausting.
This has happened to me too.
Anonymous
02/10/2026 15:28
Subject: When did you stop correcting on here?
Anonymous wrote:There are tons and tons of generalizations made on here, most with agendas. I used to correct things when I saw them only on topics I have direct knowledge because I was always seeking information when my kids were in high school and found it helpful. I think I am about tapped out now and am entering the don’t care to correct phase. It feels futile to counteract the narratives people parrot on here.
Is this what happens before people just stop visiting do you think? It’s a shame, love the anonymity that allows people to be more forthright, but then the trolls ruin it.
I haven’t stopped correcting but I have stopped being nice about it.
Anonymous
02/10/2026 14:15
Subject: When did you stop correcting on here?
Anonymous wrote:I try to use a “first page rule.” If I can add information or perspective on the first page, I figure it might help the OP. Otherwise I figure it will just get lost in the wash.
- I will follow the advice; thx
Anonymous
02/10/2026 12:02
Subject: When did you stop correcting on here?
I think people should be required to register on DCUM similar to Reddit. It would cut back on the trolls, which overwhelm the conversations.
Anonymous
02/10/2026 12:01
Subject: When did you stop correcting on here?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The trolls lure poster to engage with toxic bait. It's some kind of insane game to them.
I truly wish they would back off, because like a lot of us, this website has the potential to be really helpful!
The problem is that people can’t help but take the bait.
Exactly. Once again, just report the trolls. Stop engaging and wasting everyone’s time.
Anonymous
02/10/2026 11:56
Subject: When did you stop correcting on here?
Anonymous wrote:The trolls lure poster to engage with toxic bait. It's some kind of insane game to them.
I truly wish they would back off, because like a lot of us, this website has the potential to be really helpful!
The problem is that people can’t help but take the bait.
Anonymous
02/10/2026 09:58
Subject: When did you stop correcting on here?
I think the next step from correcting is reporting. Jeff does not read every thread/post. He relies on reporting to stamp out bad behavior.
I used to be a moderator, long ago, on a similar type forum and I sort of vibe with Jeff's moderation, so I report things that I think he would like to be reported that are outright mean, offer nothing substantive, or derail the topic. (keeping in mind the point above about nuance - there aren't really absolutes).
But job circumstances changed and I don't do it that much anymore. Effective reporting is helpful to him.
I used to be a moderator, long ago, on a similar type forum and I sort of vibe with Jeff's moderation, so I report things that I think he would like to be reported that are outright mean, offer nothing substantive, or derail the topic. (keeping in mind the point above about nuance - there aren't really absolutes).
But job circumstances changed and I don't do it that much anymore. Effective reporting is helpful to him.