Anonymous wrote:In my country, poor people dress in poor clothing; everyone can see this.

If you are not poor then you buy the best clothing. The poor people would do this too but they cannot afford good clothing.

This is obvious. What question is asked here?

In North America many of the wealthiest people wear average clothing at best. It’s a part of the culture of thrift that many very wealthy people practice. This can be traced back to the effects of the great depression and immigration.

Anonymous wrote:Some examples:
If a teenager is in all designer clothes but mom is in obvious inexpensive Walmart clothing or has rips or fades in her clothes.

If the parents are in designer clothing but the kids are in torn, ripped or too small clothing.

Do outsiders, people not within the immediate family, judge a family based on what the parents are wearing or what the children or teenagers are wearing?

I only judge someone who is wearing MAGA attire.....that says everything about who a person is. Other than that I don't judge.

Anonymous wrote:Some examples:
If a teenager is in all designer clothes but mom is in obvious inexpensive Walmart clothing or has rips or fades in her clothes.

If the parents are in designer clothing but the kids are in torn, ripped or too small clothing.

Do outsiders, people not within the immediate family, judge a family based on what the parents are wearing or what the children or teenagers are wearing?

Let me guess you live in NoVA?

Anonymous wrote:I like to think I don’t judge people by what they wear but to be candid, when I see a two year old in a Patagonia/TNF puffer I think the parents are wasteful. Those pieces of clothing will be used for two months, tops, before they’re outgrown. I really hope they hand them down to next sibling. Even then…

I bought that on sale half off and also bought a larger size so that my kid can wear it multiple years. He uses it daily for two years straight and being warm is vital since he spends so much time outdoors. You know nothing.

I was always kind of sus about the moms who participated in those fundraising fashion shows.

The “housewives” type cliques

My mom was one of them and I just always went in the other direction … she once said to me, “men like to look to a girl’s mother to see how their wife will turn out … your boyfriends are going to think you’ll be like me and you’ll turn out to be a disappointment”

In the meantime my mom had so much plastic surgery that didn’t hold up that she is basically an Elisasue at this point in her life

In my country, poor people dress in poor clothing; everyone can see this.

If you are not poor then you buy the best clothing. The poor people would do this too but they cannot afford good clothing.

This is obvious. What question is asked here?

I judge when the dad is dressed in athletic wear or dressed several steps less nice than the rest of the family. See that lot and I hate it.

I don't have to judge because I have too many more important things in my life. It would have to be extreme like someone wearing a hate message on a t-shirt or one of those t shirts with an image of a really big-boobed women with their boobies hanging out or something like that for me to take the time to judge.

I only judge the parents when you let your little kids glue their faces to a screen instead of learning how to interact with the real world.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Both equally.

A mom at a soccer game last fall was sporting over $30k in accessories on the side of her body I could see. I judged the heck out of her. Who needs three Cartier love bracelets and would wear them to a soccer field.

How could you even tell it’s 30k worth of accessories? I don’t think I have ever looked at someone’s bracelet so closely to see the designer and know it’s worth. The fact that you even noticed says something even though you feign you are unimpressed.

I know the love bracelet is about $8k bc my friend bought one for herself this fall after a big work promotion. That's why it caught my eye. This woman had 3 on plus two tennis bracelets - which is pretty sparkly for a soccer field. Plus an LV bag and golden goose sneakers.

My knowledge of the bracelets was random, not because I stalk fashion. I merely estimated the other stuff and landed her above $30k simply bc those three bracelets are at least $24k.

Anonymous wrote:Both equally.

A mom at a soccer game last fall was sporting over $30k in accessories on the side of her body I could see. I judged the heck out of her. Who needs three Cartier love bracelets and would wear them to a soccer field.

How could you even tell it’s 30k worth of accessories? I don’t think I have ever looked at someone’s bracelet so closely to see the designer and know it’s worth. The fact that you even noticed says something even though you feign you are unimpressed.

I like to think I don’t judge people by what they wear but to be candid, when I see a two year old in a Patagonia/TNF puffer I think the parents are wasteful. Those pieces of clothing will be used for two months, tops, before they’re outgrown. I really hope they hand them down to next sibling. Even then…

Both equally.

A mom at a soccer game last fall was sporting over $30k in accessories on the side of her body I could see. I judged the heck out of her. Who needs three Cartier love bracelets and would wear them to a soccer field.

Anonymous wrote:I just remember as a poor Latin kid with a free lunch that other kids black and Latin too would judge me and others on what we wore. My stuff was from Payless and Montgomery Ward so I was laughed at. Then and now I just can't judge kids or adults by their clothing.

Same, but a poor white kid.

Anonymous wrote:I thought this was going to be families where the kids were wearing pro gun shirts and maga hats or the parents were wearing clothes that barely covered genitals while dragging along kids with no shoes in the winter.

Walmart vs. designer? I could not care less if I tried.

This, and agree with those examples! Unless there is a massive label on it I wouldn't recognize it as designer or not, plus lots of designers sell at less exclusive stores, don't they? So why would I ascribe any meaning to it being designer?