Anonymous
Post 02/06/2026 23:06     Subject: What are your plans for Valentine's Day?

Anonymous wrote:It’s kind of surprising all of the restaurants are booked when no one is going out.


Because nobody else here is young like me lol. 31 here and going out. Everyone I know is.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2026 23:02     Subject: Re:What are your plans for Valentine's Day?

3 years casual dating on and off/friendship (single parents), 1 month of dating seriously. Heading to a hotel in the Bay area on a marina while our ex's have the kids on the 15th/16th. Dinner on a boardwalk weather's nice, hot tub time/bar, museums in SF the next day.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2026 20:45     Subject: What are your plans for Valentine's Day?

I’ll get my husband a heart shaped Reese peanut butter cup. He will likely get me a bouquet of flowers from the grocery store. Nothing else out of the ordinary.

We are in our 50s and have been very happily married for 23 years.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2026 20:23     Subject: What are your plans for Valentine's Day?

I'm recently single so I'll do something with friends. Probably see a band. I've got galentines brunch on Sunday.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2026 18:33     Subject: What are your plans for Valentine's Day?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Age 40/30, dating 6 months. We’re going to a drag burlesque show and seeing a psychic.


Love this have fun!!


Ha, thanks. Well, I will be having fun. He backed out; he’s pretty conservative/Christian. Kinda weird he didn’t say anything when I was first planning it and waited until a week before. But, I’ll still be going and having fun. If I have to sit through another Valentines Day where a dude takes me to a mediocre restaurant then expects crazy sex afterwards, I may very well die.


There is no rule that says you have to eat at mediocre restaurants. Make the reservation yourself.


Um, that’s exactly why I made reservations myself to do what I wanted to do. He didn’t like what I picked.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2026 18:21     Subject: What are your plans for Valentine's Day?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Age 40/30, dating 6 months. We’re going to a drag burlesque show and seeing a psychic.


Love this have fun!!


Ha, thanks. Well, I will be having fun. He backed out; he’s pretty conservative/Christian. Kinda weird he didn’t say anything when I was first planning it and waited until a week before. But, I’ll still be going and having fun. If I have to sit through another Valentines Day where a dude takes me to a mediocre restaurant then expects crazy sex afterwards, I may very well die.


There is no rule that says you have to eat at mediocre restaurants. Make the reservation yourself.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2026 18:15     Subject: What are your plans for Valentine's Day?

We will meet at a hotel in DC and have hot sex. We are in our 40s.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2026 17:10     Subject: What are your plans for Valentine's Day?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Age 40/30, dating 6 months. We’re going to a drag burlesque show and seeing a psychic.


Love this have fun!!


Ha, thanks. Well, I will be having fun. He backed out; he’s pretty conservative/Christian. Kinda weird he didn’t say anything when I was first planning it and waited until a week before. But, I’ll still be going and having fun. If I have to sit through another Valentines Day where a dude takes me to a mediocre restaurant then expects crazy sex afterwards, I may very well die.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2026 16:39     Subject: Re:What are your plans for Valentine's Day?

Anonymous wrote:48/50 together 32 years. We will be celebrating our grandsons 14th birthday since he is a valentines baby. Other than that nothing as valentines day is not a big deal to either of us.

You're 48 and 50 and have a 14yo grandson?
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2026 16:29     Subject: Re:What are your plans for Valentine's Day?

Anonymous wrote:Heart-shaped pancakes for the kids, who will be spending the rest of the day at their dad's. A relaxing day alone(ish) for me. I may buy myself chocolates and/or flowers. We'll probably do ravioli or something for dinner the night before.



Do it. Get both, and make it an expensive bouquet and nice chocolate.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2026 16:28     Subject: What are your plans for Valentine's Day?

Having dinner at a restaurant in Clifton. I'm 55 and he's 65. Together 23 years.

I have always loved Valentine's Day, and always will. But I am a romantic at heart and I love holidays in general.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2026 15:37     Subject: What are your plans for Valentine's Day?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Late 40s, married 23 years, no plans, no gifts. Never have had plans except maybe the first year we were dating, and we’re ok with that.


Same. It's just a day to avoid restaurants for us.


Same, married 15 years. It was maybe an excuse to do something fun before we had kids. Now it's really about getting the kids some candy and sending Valentines cards to school.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2026 15:34     Subject: What are your plans for Valentine's Day?

This is the official National F*** Day, any minimal plan would get you laid.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2026 15:25     Subject: What are your plans for Valentine's Day?

Taking my child to her sports competition and thinking about how my STBX took 17 years of our life together and threw it in the garbage can by filing for divorce because he was tired of doing chores and sharing his schedule with me.

And then probably making nachos.
Anonymous
Post 02/06/2026 14:48     Subject: What are your plans for Valentine's Day?

Anonymous wrote:Divorcing


Congratulations! Life gets better, I promise.