Anonymous
Post 01/25/2026 14:44     Subject: Which is Worse?
Anonymous wrote:The dude is A is any male college hockey player.


Are you from Canada? Because this is lacrosse where I live
Anonymous
Post 01/25/2026 14:42     Subject: Which is Worse?
The dude is A is any male college hockey player.
Anonymous
Post 01/25/2026 14:41     Subject: Which is Worse?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A. Lying to your spouse about sleeping with 75 people or:

B. Secretly sleeping with your fiancee's best friend two times?


Imho this is a trashy circle, you are better off quitting it.

It isn't a trashy circle. It is OP and their spouse.


Op is just bored and throwing out lame hypothetical questions to DCUM.
Anonymous
Post 01/25/2026 13:41     Subject: Which is Worse?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:B

I think a lot of people lie to their spouse about how many people they slept with before them.


Maybe? I was honest with my spouse about how many partners I’d had before we were married, but am not honest with the number after marriage. I think that’s the more common lying.

So you're a cheater defending cheaters? Gross.
Anonymous
Post 01/25/2026 13:31     Subject: Which is Worse?
Anonymous wrote:B

I think a lot of people lie to their spouse about how many people they slept with before them.


Maybe? I was honest with my spouse about how many partners I’d had before we were married, but am not honest with the number after marriage. I think that’s the more common lying.
Anonymous
Post 01/25/2026 10:46     Subject: Which is Worse?
Anonymous wrote:I’m going to say that sleeping with your fiancée’s best friend during the engagement is worse than pretty much anything.


This
Anonymous
Post 01/24/2026 15:48     Subject: Which is Worse?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Think this is a made up story, but B is far worse.

No one cares about A, and clearly spouse is judgemental if they do care - the person didn't choose to marry amy of the 75 other people they slept with. But it does make me wonder, why did they feel the need to lie to the person who is going to be their spouse?

B is horrific - engaged and sleeping with anyone else would be a reason to end it, sleeping with my best friend shows a complete lack of respect by the fiancee and the best friend.

So, B is far worse, but neither is a great foundation for a marriage



No one cares about lying to their spouse? I think most people would disagree with you.

But cheating is nbd to you? I think most people would disagree with you.
Anonymous
Post 01/24/2026 15:44     Subject: Which is Worse?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A. Lying to your spouse about sleeping with 75 people or:

B. Secretly sleeping with your fiancee's best friend two times?


Imho this is a trashy circle, you are better off quitting it.

It isn't a trashy circle. It is OP and their spouse.


Match made in haven.
Anonymous
Post 01/24/2026 15:42     Subject: Which is Worse?
Anonymous wrote:Think this is a made up story, but B is far worse.

No one cares about A, and clearly spouse is judgemental if they do care - the person didn't choose to marry amy of the 75 other people they slept with. But it does make me wonder, why did they feel the need to lie to the person who is going to be their spouse?

B is horrific - engaged and sleeping with anyone else would be a reason to end it, sleeping with my best friend shows a complete lack of respect by the fiancee and the best friend.

So, B is far worse, but neither is a great foundation for a marriage



No one cares about lying to their spouse? I think most people would disagree with you.
Anonymous
Post 01/24/2026 15:24     Subject: Which is Worse?
Anonymous wrote: Both are before marriage.

Partner A undercut the number of partners they slept with by 75.

Partner B slept with Partner A's best friend while they were engaged.

One is cheating and one is not. Cheating is obviously worse.
Anonymous
Post 01/24/2026 13:34     Subject: Which is Worse?
Anonymous wrote:Both situations are terrible. In fact, all sex outside marriage is wrong.

I strongly disagree with you there.
Anonymous
Post 01/24/2026 13:32     Subject: Which is Worse?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A. Lying to your spouse about sleeping with 75 people or:

B. Secretly sleeping with your fiancee's best friend two times?


Imho this is a trashy circle, you are better off quitting it.

It isn't a trashy circle. It is OP and their spouse.
Anonymous
Post 01/24/2026 13:29     Subject: Which is Worse?
Anonymous wrote: Both are before marriage.

Partner A undercut the number of partners they slept with by 75.

Partner B slept with Partner A's best friend while they were engaged.


Partner B did the worse thing by FAR.

Anonymous
Post 01/24/2026 11:44     Subject: Which is Worse?
B
Anonymous
Post 01/24/2026 11:41     Subject: Which is Worse?
Anonymous wrote: Both are before marriage.

Partner A undercut the number of partners they slept with by 75.

Partner B slept with Partner A's best friend while they were engaged.


What a stupid question. In this a lame scum troll hypothetical or do you hang out with trashy people and want to confirm that?