Anonymous
Post 01/22/2026 22:16     Subject: 38 year old woman- what age range to date?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am 37 years old, recently divorced and am dating 48-53. I honestly wouldn’t go younger. The late 30s guys I meet seem like dweebs.
I do have kids already, and probably don’t want more (might consider if I found the right person) but I’m also financially successful. I prefer a seasoned guy with more experience! Most guys don’t have a problem in bed. Delayed O is probably the biggest (but it still happens).


Just keep it casual or you are digging your own grave. Nothing will age you faster than an old partner. And what’s more valuable than time and youth?


For the record to the PP above, I promise you I am a woman 😂
I mean, these guys are high earners, personal trainers, in better shape than any guys ive been with my age. They have the money for self care, relaxing vacations, etc.
They definitely don’t act “old”
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2026 15:06     Subject: 38 year old woman- what age range to date?
Anonymous wrote:I am 37 years old, recently divorced and am dating 48-53. I honestly wouldn’t go younger. The late 30s guys I meet seem like dweebs.
I do have kids already, and probably don’t want more (might consider if I found the right person) but I’m also financially successful. I prefer a seasoned guy with more experience! Most guys don’t have a problem in bed. Delayed O is probably the biggest (but it still happens).


Just keep it casual or you are digging your own grave. Nothing will age you faster than an old partner. And what’s more valuable than time and youth?
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2026 15:01     Subject: 38 year old woman- what age range to date?
Op, do you need financial support as well or earns good money for yourself?

I have some of my friends who put money or financial security very high in their late 30s and 40s.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2026 15:00     Subject: 38 year old woman- what age range to date?
Op, just get into a relationship and see if it could go LTR. Don't think too much because not every partner is going to give you what you want.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 23:07     Subject: 38 year old woman- what age range to date?
26-49
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 23:06     Subject: 38 year old woman- what age range to date?
Anonymous wrote:I am 37 years old, recently divorced and am dating 48-53. I honestly wouldn’t go younger. The late 30s guys I meet seem like dweebs.
I do have kids already, and probably don’t want more (might consider if I found the right person) but I’m also financially successful. I prefer a seasoned guy with more experience! Most guys don’t have a problem in bed. Delayed O is probably the biggest (but it still happens).


I am 48, divorced 6 years and only date 15-20 years younger. That is who matches with me the most. I am not looking to ever remarry. I am usually with one person a year at a time until I cut it off. Woman here.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 23:04     Subject: 38 year old woman- what age range to date?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:48 is too old? I guess she has 10 years to figure this out before she is too old too, probably less before perimenopause starts to kick in.


So what ? At 48 she can date men within 5 years of her age. There will be in fact more divorced men available to her at that age (late 40s-50s hit the market after midlife divorces).
She doesn’t need to date them yet when she’s still relatively young.


At 48, she can date much younger than 5 years her age (if she is not looking for marriage). The man I see is 30. I have dated similiar ages. It depends how you look. That is it.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 21:55     Subject: Re:38 year old woman- what age range to date?
Fifty to 75.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 19:22     Subject: 38 year old woman- what age range to date?
Anonymous wrote:I am 37 years old, recently divorced and am dating 48-53. I honestly wouldn’t go younger. The late 30s guys I meet seem like dweebs.
I do have kids already, and probably don’t want more (might consider if I found the right person) but I’m also financially successful. I prefer a seasoned guy with more experience! Most guys don’t have a problem in bed. Delayed O is probably the biggest (but it still happens).


This is certainly written by a man.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 17:59     Subject: 38 year old woman- what age range to date?
I am 37 years old, recently divorced and am dating 48-53. I honestly wouldn’t go younger. The late 30s guys I meet seem like dweebs.
I do have kids already, and probably don’t want more (might consider if I found the right person) but I’m also financially successful. I prefer a seasoned guy with more experience! Most guys don’t have a problem in bed. Delayed O is probably the biggest (but it still happens).
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 17:37     Subject: 38 year old woman- what age range to date?
Are you the same person who posted awhile back that you don’t have kids and still want them?
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 17:26     Subject: 38 year old woman- what age range to date?
Anonymous wrote:48 is too old? I guess she has 10 years to figure this out before she is too old too, probably less before perimenopause starts to kick in.


So what ? At 48 she can date men within 5 years of her age. There will be in fact more divorced men available to her at that age (late 40s-50s hit the market after midlife divorces).
She doesn’t need to date them yet when she’s still relatively young.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 17:20     Subject: 38 year old woman- what age range to date?
50-75
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 17:16     Subject: 38 year old woman- what age range to date?
48 is too old? I guess she has 10 years to figure this out before she is too old too, probably less before perimenopause starts to kick in.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2026 16:30     Subject: 38 year old woman- what age range to date?
5 years plus of minus and a few more if you go younger. You will have commonalities with people close to you in age and if it’s just for fun id go as low as feels right for you…I don’t go more than 8 years younger.


48 IS too old in MOST cases. Men don’t want to believe it…it’s true though.