Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 20:05     Subject: Re:If you found this out what would you do
No I definitely would not spill the beans about all of this right now.

It is fifteen yrs in the past so nothing good would possibly come out of disclosing all of this at the present time.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 20:01     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No. They weren't married. It was college. It seems like you're looking for drama.

+1
Leave it alone.


+2. How do you even know the friend doesn’t know?
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 19:59     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
lol sure, if you want this woman to make it her mission in life to destroy you.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 19:42     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
Absolutely not! No!
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 19:20     Subject: Re:If you found this out what would you do
Hell no! Most of us did something stupid in college and you move on.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 16:39     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
So your husband was the "other man", and she cheated on her boyfriend (now husband) with him? Who also happened to be bffs with your DH? Yikes on a bike. Low class behavior all around.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 16:35     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you found out that your husband slept with his best friends girlfriend ( now wife) while in college 15 years ago, would you tell the friend? Apparently they were all friends, and my now husband had a crush on her. I don’t feel threatened by this woman, but if your best friend slept with your now wife, wound you want to know? They have kids.

They live far away from us and it’s a meetup every few years.


Unclear if your us and slept with her WHILE she was dating someone else/his friend and he knew that or had her before or after when she was single.

Does being someones girlfriend imply she was single?

"husband slept with his best friends girlfriend"
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 16:33     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wow, your husband is a disgusting piece of shit. I feel so bad for this "friend".


OP should stick by her Husband.The friend would’ve done the same thing, normal male behavior.

No, it's not normal male behavior to sleep with your best friends' girlfriend. Jesus Christ, do you have any standards?
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 16:22     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
Anonymous wrote:If you found out that your husband slept with his best friends girlfriend ( now wife) while in college 15 years ago, would you tell the friend? Apparently they were all friends, and my now husband had a crush on her. I don’t feel threatened by this woman, but if your best friend slept with your now wife, wound you want to know? They have kids.

They live far away from us and it’s a meetup every few years.


Unclear if your us and slept with her WHILE she was dating someone else/his friend and he knew that or had her before or after when she was single.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 16:21     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
No

Not even cheating involved.

Move on.

Surely you had some exes who got married, go before their wives if you get a kick out of this nonsense
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 16:03     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
Anonymous wrote:Wow, your husband is a disgusting piece of shit. I feel so bad for this "friend".


OP should stick by her Husband.The friend would’ve done the same thing, normal male behavior.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 15:32     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
Wow, your husband is a disgusting piece of shit. I feel so bad for this "friend".
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 15:24     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
Of course not. What a horrid person you would be to create emotional drama in so many people's lives!
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 15:20     Subject: Re:If you found this out what would you do
Those of you that want to know, why? Why on earth would you want to know about somebody your DH (who wasn’t even your DH then) slept with 15-20 yrs ago? To what purpose?

I wouldn’t even want to know if my DH slept with someone early on in our marriage at this point. (Married 24 yrs). Why?
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 15:15     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
OP are you the wife or are you a random third party?