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Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

This tells you on many levels who he is, none of which are good. Definitely move on.

Op here. He is a dad to teenage girls too. So bizarre.

And? Trump's wife isn't American and he has daughters as well. I don't know why you think this matters.

Why do you think a pedophile is a bar setter?

This sailed right over your head.

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Anonymous wrote:We don't know if you are overly sensitive or if he's an a-hole. We need to know what the meme is.

No, because if YOU wouldn't find it offensive, that doesn't mean OP didn't. OP is entitled to your opinion, as are you. I'm pretty hard to offend so it may not bother me, but if it bothers OP and the guy she is dating thinks she shouldn't be offended, then they shouldn't be dating.

If anyone is wondering how you end up on those threads bashing your husband 10+ years in - this is it - ignore the red flags in your relationship and have kids with him anyway.

I give a lot of leeway to the people I know and trust. Strangers have no business sending me offensive jokes. I would have been put off too.

You missed the point

Anonymous wrote:All of you are being silly and short sided in your responses
She's the one that drew first blood. Why didn't you just ask him his meaning and interpretation in the meme because you don't get it
Instead of being so offensive to him as to say "I'm offended". You're the Quilty one with no social clue.

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Anonymous wrote:We don't know if you are overly sensitive or if he's an a-hole. We need to know what the meme is.

No, because if YOU wouldn't find it offensive, that doesn't mean OP didn't. OP is entitled to your opinion, as are you. I'm pretty hard to offend so it may not bother me, but if it bothers OP and the guy she is dating thinks she shouldn't be offended, then they shouldn't be dating.

If anyone is wondering how you end up on those threads bashing your husband 10+ years in - this is it - ignore the red flags in your relationship and have kids with him anyway.

I give a lot of leeway to the people I know and trust. Strangers have no business sending me offensive jokes. I would have been put off too.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

This tells you on many levels who he is, none of which are good. Definitely move on.

Op here. He is a dad to teenage girls too. So bizarre.

And? Trump's wife isn't American and he has daughters as well. I don't know why you think this matters.

Why do you think a pedophile is a bar setter?

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

This tells you on many levels who he is, none of which are good. Definitely move on.

Op here. He is a dad to teenage girls too. So bizarre.

And? Trump's wife isn't American and he has daughters as well. I don't know why you think this matters.

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Anonymous wrote:We don't know if you are overly sensitive or if he's an a-hole. We need to know what the meme is.

No, because if YOU wouldn't find it offensive, that doesn't mean OP didn't. OP is entitled to your opinion, as are you. I'm pretty hard to offend so it may not bother me, but if it bothers OP and the guy she is dating thinks she shouldn't be offended, then they shouldn't be dating.

If anyone is wondering how you end up on those threads bashing your husband 10+ years in - this is it - ignore the red flags in your relationship and have kids with him anyway.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

This tells you on many levels who he is, none of which are good. Definitely move on.

Op here. He is a dad to teenage girls too. So bizarre.

Anonymous wrote:All of you are being silly and short sided in your responses
She's the one that drew first blood. Why didn't you just ask him his meaning and interpretation in the meme because you don't get it
Instead of being so offensive to him as to say "I'm offended". You're the Quilty one with no social clue.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know if you're uptight or not, but I do know that "you're too easily offended" is not the right response when the person you're dating/in a relationship with says they're offended. He should care that he offended you, at least enough to understand why and avoid doing it again. You don't have to pretend to be one of his bros in the locker room.

Op here.

It was a locker room bro joke type of meme. A girl sticking her tongue out like a dog I guess to represent interest in oral sex?

When I told him it was offensive he said I’m easily offensive and called me a princess.

Anonymous wrote:We don't know if you are overly sensitive or if he's an a-hole. We need to know what the meme is.

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Anonymous wrote:We had been out on 2 dates. He sent me a crude meme that was supposed to be a sex joke but was demeaning to women. I told him I found it offensive and confirmed if it was directed at me. He said it seems I’m easily offended and it was a joke.

Am I being too uptight?

It doesn't matter - you two are not a match.

Anonymous wrote:We had been out on 2 dates. He sent me a crude meme that was supposed to be a sex joke but was demeaning to women. I told him I found it offensive and confirmed if it was directed at me. He said it seems I’m easily offended and it was a joke.

Am I being too uptight?

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Anonymous wrote:You didn't sleep with him, did you, OP?

No I did not.