Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 17:09     Subject: Did your sex life improve when you became empty nesters?

Its in the future, but we'll be ancient then, I suppose it could improve in quality but it sure won't be improving in quantity.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 11:50     Subject: Did your sex life improve when you became empty nesters?

It did not.

The excuses for not having sex that centered on having children around shifted to other reasons for not having sex. The kid-based excuses were, as it turns out, pretexts.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 11:49     Subject: Did your sex life improve when you became empty nesters?

Anonymous wrote:I initiated divorce and my life improved a lot. My spouse made me feel bad all the time and we never had sex. After I left, I found out I was fun and attractive after all. I was still a good parent.


Me too! Funny how things work out.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 11:48     Subject: Did your sex life improve when you became empty nesters?

Anonymous wrote:A truly empty nest should mean no kids, and no animals.


+1. It's not insurmountable by any means, but our dogs remain a hassle to deal with when we're having sex.