Anonymous
Post 01/04/2026 20:30     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Some of them. I've dated a few that were freshly divorced, who had a dead bedroom for a couple years pre-divorce. They were super excited to have regular sex again. In my case they were also looking to date me exclusively, which was good, but they weren't emotionally ready for it.

So it depends on the guy. But in general, yes. It's usually not ALL they want, but yes.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2026 17:58     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t feel like they actually want to be in a relationship, and that all they want is sex. I’d think they’d want a true companion. What do you think?

Good and compatible sex, then we’re happy and stay.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2026 15:09     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A man who left his marriage doesn't want companionship. if he did he would have stayed married. he wants independence and lack of responsibility.


I left my marriage. I wanted companionship. I didn't have a gf when I left.


You can be both: “I want companionship for me!” “I don’t want the responsibilities of a wife, home and kids”. “I want companionship, someone to love me!” Me me me


Most people who divorce do it for themselves. Yes, some divorces are to protect the kids, but not most. But what do the divorcing people want afterwards? Most men and women I know want both sex and some kind of companionship. I'm not saying men and women are the same, but most are not content just getting sex. Obviously there are exceptions.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2026 13:49     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Heck, I am a married woman and often feel like sometimes my husband is only looking for sex.


Why do you say that?


Because that’s the only time he says it does anything. To ask for it.
He’ll even throw a rage at 5pm and then want sex at 9pm like that’s safe and normal.

DP
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2026 13:47     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A man who left his marriage doesn't want companionship. if he did he would have stayed married. he wants independence and lack of responsibility.


I left my marriage. I wanted companionship. I didn't have a gf when I left.


You can be both: “I want companionship for me!” “I don’t want the responsibilities of a wife, home and kids”. “I want companionship, someone to love me!” Me me me
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2026 13:45     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:Heck, I am a married woman and often feel like sometimes my husband is only looking for sex.

+1
Guess what % of the my husband opens his mouth to speak the topic is about the family versus him?

0% about anyone in the family’s needs

100% about himself (I need this or that or have to work or want this or that)
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2026 13:42     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am divorced and have always looked for companionship as well as sex.

The disconnect, for me, is that I don't always want an exclusive relationship with the women I like to sleep with and whose companionship I like.


What does this really mean? How old are you?


It mean he know he’s a disappointment so keeps his distance and churns through women.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2026 13:40     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t feel like they actually want to be in a relationship, and that all they want is sex. I’d think they’d want a true companion. What do you think?


A companion like a trained dog who cooks, cleans, and plays dress up? You bet!
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2026 13:39     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:It doesn’t feel like they actually want to be in a relationship, and that all they want is sex. I’d think they’d want a true companion. What do you think?

They are always looking for a caretaker.

A woman to take care of care of them- their sex, their image, their ego, their home, their meals, their arm candy at events, their kids, their health, their holidays.

Some have money and think throwing money at the above for some named conversations is the way to go. Is that a “relationship”? Yes, a transactional one.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2026 13:39     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:Goodness no.

When there is a divorce, the husband is usually remarried before the wife. Most men desperately need affection, ego-boosting, and someone to do the laundry and maintain social ties even more than they need sex.


This. Don't forget cooking and grocery shopping as well.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2026 13:28     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A man who left his marriage doesn't want companionship. if he did he would have stayed married. he wants independence and lack of responsibility.

All of this. Men and their many failings are the #1 reason for divorce. A responsible man doesn't end up divorced. So, you are getting the irresponsible trash another woman threw away.


Your misandry is disgusting. You are a terrible person and don’t deserve love.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2026 13:27     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
I am a divorced man who is looking to remarry, but it is exceptionally easy to have sex in the meantime while searching for a lasting relationship.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2026 13:27     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:It takes a lot for a woman to evict the father of her children. So, divorced men are generally addicts of some sort, emotionally damaged scum incapable of pair bonding, closet cases, and other lower forms of life. They're generally trash too weak, lacking in morals, and undesirable to keep a family together despite the very low expectations men get to meet.

If you keep in mind that you're dealing with the bottom tier of the lesser half of the human race, then all the problems divorced men cause make sense. I get that many older women are stuck fishing in this polluted end of the pond as a practical matter, but don't blind yourself to what you're getting.

Please don't bother attacking me if you're a divorce man hurt by the truth or a woman dealing with a divorced man who is mad about the truth. You know divorce courts aren't sending their best.


Um. What? Men are just as likely to “evict” their cheating whores of a wife.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2026 12:38     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:A man who left his marriage doesn't want companionship. if he did he would have stayed married. he wants independence and lack of responsibility.



This folks.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2026 12:27     Subject: Are divorced men solely looking for sex?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A man who left his marriage doesn't want companionship. if he did he would have stayed married. he wants independence and lack of responsibility.

All of this. Men and their many failings are the #1 reason for divorce. A responsible man doesn't end up divorced. So, you are getting the irresponsible trash another woman threw away.


This is such sexist drivel. You misandrists and the misogynists just write all the same things but switch man with woman or woman with man.

It's actually the truth that male shortcomings are the #1 reason for divorce. Generally, trashy behavior that makes a person unfit for human consumption skews male. Being mad at me doesn't change anything.


I am not mad at you. You hate men, blame them for everything, call them names. Misogynists hate women, blame them for everything, call them names. Two peas in the same pod. You are the same people, mirroring each other. Man haters / blamers and the women haters / blamers are the same.

Having a good cry over your butthurt and then getting over it would've done you more good than this verbose rant.