Anonymous wrote:Don’t divorce. Get marriage counseling and make it work. Don’t listen to the bitter divorced people on this board. They want you to fail just like their marriages failed

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

Make sure you explain to them your theories.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

That is weird that only impoverished former SAHMs are picking such as catch as you. I'm a woman in my late 40s and always check my dates exes out of curiosity (it's easy to google by prior home address as all residents and their kids are listed, and I check prior criminal history anyway). The ex-wives of the divorced men that I went on dates were: VPs of two large investment banks; law partners; a director of a hospital; VPs of tech companies; one famous opera singer; female real estate developer etc.

LOL. Yeah, we are sure guys who were married to EVPs at F500 companys are turning to OLD in hopes for a match. So sad you lie on an anonymous forum to make yourself feel better about being a single old fat ady. Just accept it grandma, no man wants you. Not even to pump and dump. Sad.

Almost everyone I meet on OLD is an executive of some sort. And I’m not fat, by far. Not sure why you don’t attract the right crowd - probably you need to look at the mirror

That's what they told you and you swallowed it. No surprise there.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

That is weird that only impoverished former SAHMs are picking such as catch as you. I'm a woman in my late 40s and always check my dates exes out of curiosity (it's easy to google by prior home address as all residents and their kids are listed, and I check prior criminal history anyway). The ex-wives of the divorced men that I went on dates were: VPs of two large investment banks; law partners; a director of a hospital; VPs of tech companies; one famous opera singer; female real estate developer etc.

LOL. Yeah, we are sure guys who were married to EVPs at F500 companys are turning to OLD in hopes for a match. So sad you lie on an anonymous forum to make yourself feel better about being a single old fat ady. Just accept it grandma, no man wants you. Not even to pump and dump. Sad.

Almost everyone I meet on OLD is an executive of some sort. And I’m not fat, by far. Not sure why you don’t attract the right crowd - probably you need to look at the mirror

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

That is weird that only impoverished former SAHMs are picking such as catch as you. I'm a woman in my late 40s and always check my dates exes out of curiosity (it's easy to google by prior home address as all residents and their kids are listed, and I check prior criminal history anyway). The ex-wives of the divorced men that I went on dates were: VPs of two large investment banks; law partners; a director of a hospital; VPs of tech companies; one famous opera singer; female real estate developer etc.

LOL. Yeah, we are sure guys who were married to EVPs at F500 companys are turning to OLD in hopes for a match. So sad you lie on an anonymous forum to make yourself feel better about being a single old fat ady. Just accept it grandma, no man wants you. Not even to pump and dump. Sad.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

That is weird that only impoverished former SAHMs are picking such as catch as you. I'm a woman in my late 40s and always check my dates exes out of curiosity (it's easy to google by prior home address as all residents and their kids are listed, and I check prior criminal history anyway). The ex-wives of the divorced men that I went on dates were: VPs of two large investment banks; law partners; a director of a hospital; VPs of tech companies; one famous opera singer; female real estate developer etc.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

No one kills for 55 yo never married guy. Everyone knows he has more baggage than a Tumi warehouse

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

Wow, it sounds like the women who are attracted to you really suck! I wonder why that is.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

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Anonymous wrote:if he looking for a woman close to age (which most people prefer) it's going to be tough. most of the good ones are taken. if he is looking for a younger woman it is more doable but he is not landing "top" women in that category.

100% false. A man would get his choice of a top younger woman if he is good looking, financially successful, and has interesting hobbies.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

It's a target rich environment, yes, but 99% of the time for a reason. A lot of them are just delusional. They went to VA.Tech, met their DH, worked for 5 years after college, them stayed home with the kids for the next decade while their husbands carried them. They watched moronic 'influencers', rarely exercised, and turned into career -ess, middle aged women with kids who think they are entitled to whatever they want because the last time they were single they were 21 and smoking hot. Stale leftovers at best, now. But they are still good for a ride. And the put out like champs.

- signed, tall, wealthy, 55 yo never married (and never will) serial short term monogamist that almost every woman in that demographic would kill for.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.

My boss is an SVP at a F500 company, and he has no problem with dating in his early 50s. Most of the women he dates are in the late 20s or early 30s. His two adult kids are currently in college. He is currently engaged to a 28-year-old woman, no kids, who used to work in the finance department. He used his network to find her another job with another company. For men in their early 50s with $$$ and status, it is very easy in the dating game.

Congratulations - he’s en route to a new set of kids, while most other 50s men are enjoying retirement and travel with their grown up kids.
Not really sure if a new uterus is worth it, but men know better, of course.

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend in a smilar situation. His target should be divorced single mothers in their 40s. There's a lot of them, and not so many men looking for that demographic.

The apps can be OK, but also meeting in real life can be a better way to get across your personality. For example, the women at your kids' school events; or any hobbies you do, etc.

Just realize since both of you have kids, which will take top priority, then don't expect to meet that often -- people are busy.