Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 21:01     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
OP, the guy is taller than you by a few inches. What's your issue? I have actually also met a great 5'4" guy, however I'm 5'9". Now, sadly, that doesn't work.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 21:01     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Anonymous wrote:You’re too old to let petty shit like that get in the way of being with a great guy. But you should probably cut him loose because he deserves better than your shallow self.


+1
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 21:00     Subject: Re:Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Maybe this guy will be on here posting about her bra size being too small or something.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 21:00     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Anonymous wrote:We are 39 and 41


You're 5'1" and 39 OP, 5'4" is not a big deal.

I'm 5'9" and my DH is 5'5".
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 20:59     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Anonymous wrote:My cousin is 4'10" and ber boyfriend is 6'4". Who cares. Except you 🤷‍♀️


PP. "Her" not ber..
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 20:58     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
My cousin is 4'10" and ber boyfriend is 6'4". Who cares. Except you 🤷‍♀️
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 20:55     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Anonymous wrote:Serious advice here. If you are not sexually attracted to him, then don't pursue it. If you are sexually attracted to him but reluctant because he's short, then go for it.

I'm a.man. I'm usually not attracted to fat women. But once in a while, something clicks. Certain personalities or shapes get me going, to my surprise. You may actually find a few short guys attractive.


Very true and nuanced response.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 20:53     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Serious advice here. If you are not sexually attracted to him, then don't pursue it. If you are sexually attracted to him but reluctant because he's short, then go for it.

I'm a.man. I'm usually not attracted to fat women. But once in a while, something clicks. Certain personalities or shapes get me going, to my surprise. You may actually find a few short guys attractive.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 14:01     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
He sounds great. He will be so grateful and worship you
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 13:50     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Why are you with someone who you aren't attracted to. Leading people on and messing with their heads is a bad choice and a sign of a person with poor intergrity. Man or woman.

Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 13:48     Subject: Re:Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op here. I’m petite I don’t want a petite man too!! He should at least be 5’8!


You do realize that you’re getting a bit long in the tooth to have all your demands met, right? You’re almost 40. Enjoying remaining single, I guess.


Yeah, girl. You're hitting your sell-by date. Go ahead and wait for the giant you know is out there are ready to pounce on your petite self.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 13:41     Subject: Re:Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Crawl back into your dumpster, OP
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 13:31     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
If he checks all the other boxes, I would seriously consider him, OP. You don't meet a "great career, smart and nice personality and emotionally available" every day!

I'm 5'4", my husband is 5'6", my adult son is 5'5" and my teen daughter is 5'1". I know that your kids might be quite short. But there's more to life than height.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 13:30     Subject: Re:Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
So you think you can do better basically.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2025 13:26     Subject: Perfect on paper guy but he’s…5’4
Maybe the other 8” are elsewhere?