Sometimes I would like to have a partner, but then I look at everyone I know who is OLD, and realize I really just don't want to go through that.

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Anonymous wrote:I am 43F, 5'3'' and 190 lbs. If I want action, I can get plenty of action so I just date but settling down with a long term relationship is a different issue.

I actually love your body type. I'm sure you have got a nice big butt. I'm 45. But you probably don't find tall 6' skinny men attractive.

I have an ok butt but also have a belly and a lot of fat around mid-section that makes me look pregnant. I need to lose some weight but not happening easily.

PP, do you get hit on a lot? Some men would pick chubby women if they are also good in bed.

How would they know they are good in bed before taking them out

They don't and some women are just good in flirting but bad in bed. If they connect their self-worth by their weight and looks then they are going to be very insecure in bed as well. My sister is like this - she is in her early 40s and start talking to good men for a month or two and then they disappear. She told me (I am a woman too) that she doesn't like to give or receive oral and her sex drive has gone down and it gets difficult for her to keep men engaged if they are doing everything and she is not giving them good sex.

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Anonymous wrote:I am 43F, 5'3'' and 190 lbs. If I want action, I can get plenty of action so I just date but settling down with a long term relationship is a different issue.

I actually love your body type. I'm sure you have got a nice big butt. I'm 45. But you probably don't find tall 6' skinny men attractive.

I have an ok butt but also have a belly and a lot of fat around mid-section that makes me look pregnant. I need to lose some weight but not happening easily.

PP, do you get hit on a lot? Some men would pick chubby women if they are also good in bed.

How would they know they are good in bed before taking them out

Honestly, late thirties is a tough age. I found it easier to find men to date once I was 43/43 and had given up on having kids. At late thirties, they are thinking you want kids and are rushing, understandably, to do that. So guys who want kids are ideally looking a little younger (tho some will still date you). Once you hit mid forties, if you are ok with no kids, all these divorced dads come out of the woodwork and are dying to date you.

That was my experience anyway

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Anonymous wrote:I am 43F, 5'3'' and 190 lbs. If I want action, I can get plenty of action so I just date but settling down with a long term relationship is a different issue.

I actually love your body type. I'm sure you have got a nice big butt. I'm 45. But you probably don't find tall 6' skinny men attractive.

I have an ok butt but also have a belly and a lot of fat around mid-section that makes me look pregnant. I need to lose some weight but not happening easily.

PP, do you get hit on a lot? Some men would pick chubby women if they are also good in bed.

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Anonymous wrote:I am 43F, 5'3'' and 190 lbs. If I want action, I can get plenty of action so I just date but settling down with a long term relationship is a different issue.

I actually love your body type. I'm sure you have got a nice big butt. I'm 45. But you probably don't find tall 6' skinny men attractive.

I have an ok butt but also have a belly and a lot of fat around mid-section that makes me look pregnant. I need to lose some weight but not happening easily.

My mom is in her 60’s and looks pretty old IMO, still gets tons of male attention

I’m a guy btw. We always like to think the tables turn eventually but they never really do. Even older women have options

Anonymous wrote:I am 43F, 5'3'' and 190 lbs. If I want action, I can get plenty of action so I just date but settling down with a long term relationship is a different issue.

I actually love your body type. I'm sure you have got a nice big butt. I'm 45. But you probably don't find tall 6' skinny men attractive.

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Anonymous wrote:"Normal" woman is a really wide range. One of my "normal" friends is a tiny, size 0 so not busty and not the type to be in a teeny tiny bikini. Women might say she's just cute but she has a ton of guys after her. Another normal friend is 5'8'' and not overweight in the slightest but she's not rail thin either. Women would also say she's cute and dresses well and is put together but she has a harder time with matches.

Op here. I’m 5’1 and size 4. I’m not fat and I exercise and eat sensibly. I have a petite body!

Then you must be ugly. Being small isnt an automatic upsell to being hot. Plenty of tall men are ugly af, as far as that goes too.

You're a woman. You do NOT get to complain about dating sites. Seriously, you have no idea.

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Anonymous wrote:I am 43F, 5'3'' and 190 lbs. If I want action, I can get plenty of action so I just date but settling down with a long term relationship is a different issue.

yeah, getting action is so easy.

If she can get action at this age and weight then you certainly can OP. go for it.

You are not ugly.
You are just average.
Now go out with average looking guys.

Anonymous wrote:I am 43F, 5'3'' and 190 lbs. If I want action, I can get plenty of action so I just date but settling down with a long term relationship is a different issue.

yeah, getting action is so easy.

I have been looking IR life, but no luck yet. I'll never go on OLD. I rather die alone.