Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 16:02     Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Well, we don’t really have one. I’d change his fitness and his entire approach. He’s passive and not confident. And I’d love to desire him and have tons more passion.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 15:50     Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
I wish my husband would get a vasectomy and go down on me.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 15:44     Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'd want my wife to be able to O with me.



Female PIV O frequency and intensity is a function of her partner's attractiveness. High value mates give females more Os.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10429993/


This is some serious junk science. Lol


And it is a study of college women and orgasm, which is a lot different than middle aged women. Oh for those college days....


The paper is so ridiculous it made me cringe. So creepy having these older males surveying female undergraduates about their sexual experiences.


I felt the same way. I can't believe they spend time and money on this nonsense.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 15:10     Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
My teenagers need to go to college!
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 15:09     Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'd want my wife to be able to O with me.



Female PIV O frequency and intensity is a function of her partner's attractiveness. High value mates give females more Os.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10429993/


This is some serious junk science. Lol


And it is a study of college women and orgasm, which is a lot different than middle aged women. Oh for those college days....


The paper is so ridiculous it made me cringe. So creepy having these older males surveying female undergraduates about their sexual experiences.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 15:03     Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'd want my wife to be able to O with me.



Female PIV O frequency and intensity is a function of her partner's attractiveness. High value mates give females more Os.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10429993/


This is some serious junk science. Lol


And it is a study of college women and orgasm, which is a lot different than middle aged women. Oh for those college days....
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 15:01     Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'd want my wife to be able to O with me.



Female PIV O frequency and intensity is a function of her partner's attractiveness. High value mates give females more Os.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10429993/


This is some serious junk science. Lol
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 14:55     Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don’t have a sex life unless porno and self help counts. DW has no interests in it or in talking about it. Roommates only and in separate rooms due to kids in ES.


how old are you guys? This is not good but will improve once kids come out of ES.


No it won’t. She doesn’t care. Get a side piece, PP!
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 14:48     Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'd like to be a little thinner. Does that count? And I'd like to orgasm more easily - changing hormones and it isn't as easy any more. I'd like my spouse to be a good deal thinner, as well.


How old are you? Same problem of getting O with me too and I am 43F and have hormonal imbalance.

I'm 55. Transitioning into menopause.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 14:47     Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:I'd want my wife to be able to O with me.



Female PIV O frequency and intensity is a function of her partner's attractiveness. High value mates give females more Os.

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10429993/
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 14:02     Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:Less frequent. Like 1 time per month. Married DW here.


He already hates you.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 13:51     Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'd want my wife to be able to O with me.


I have the same issue. Advice has been don’t put pressure on her. However, even if she doesn’t feel pressured, the issue likely isn’t resolved.


I've tried it all. Intense individual effort. Concerted joint effort after discussion. The no effort/just for fun phase. The no longer talk about it, but secretly hope for it, phase. Now it's more the, it isn't ever happening, is it, phase.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 13:45     Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:I'd want my wife to be able to O with me.


I have the same issue. Advice has been don’t put pressure on her. However, even if she doesn’t feel pressured, the issue likely isn’t resolved.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 13:06     Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
I'd want my wife to be able to O with me.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 10:35     Subject: What would you change about your sex life?
Anonymous wrote:I'd like to be a little thinner. Does that count? And I'd like to orgasm more easily - changing hormones and it isn't as easy any more. I'd like my spouse to be a good deal thinner, as well.


How old are you? Same problem of getting O with me too and I am 43F and have hormonal imbalance.