Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 17:41     Subject: Is being a short man that much of a difficulty in dating
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Thick wallet negates 90% of physical shortcomings.


Yeah, but what kind of woman are you going to attract if she'll overlook anything for money?


This. Short guys know what women interested in them are after, and they get what they deserve.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 17:40     Subject: Is being a short man that much of a difficulty in dating
Anonymous wrote:Height is not an issue, no matter how much the red-pillers try to push that narrative. The problem is men who prefer to blame women for discriminating against their height when the problem is usually much more basic-

- either they are trying to date women who are substantially more attractive than them

- or they have other major flaws that they are unwilling to address (personality, financial, social skills, anger, etc).

If you don’t agree with me, go to any public area with lots of foot traffic and just look around you. Height is not the issue.


It really was for me and my friends when I was in my 20s/30s. All the guys we dated were 6 feet plus or just about that height. It's definitely a thing.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 16:59     Subject: Is being a short man that much of a difficulty in dating
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Thick wallet negates 90% of physical shortcomings.


Yeah, but what kind of woman are you going to attract if she'll overlook anything for money?


The kind they deserve.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 16:51     Subject: Is being a short man that much of a difficulty in dating
Anonymous wrote:Thick wallet negates 90% of physical shortcomings.


Yeah, but what kind of woman are you going to attract if she'll overlook anything for money?
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 16:48     Subject: Is being a short man that much of a difficulty in dating
Anonymous wrote:Thick wallet negates 90% of physical shortcomings.


I dunno- it would have to be reeealll thick if he’s under 6’ and like Elon-thick if he’s under 5’8”.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 16:34     Subject: Is being a short man that much of a difficulty in dating
Height is not an issue, no matter how much the red-pillers try to push that narrative. The problem is men who prefer to blame women for discriminating against their height when the problem is usually much more basic-

- either they are trying to date women who are substantially more attractive than them

- or they have other major flaws that they are unwilling to address (personality, financial, social skills, anger, etc).

If you don’t agree with me, go to any public area with lots of foot traffic and just look around you. Height is not the issue.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 16:19     Subject: Is being a short man that much of a difficulty in dating
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't think so. I see plenty of short men in relationship. . I've noticed that the men constantly complaining about their height being the issue have a boatload of other issues that are likely the cause of their dating troubles.



This ^^.


Yes and they act entitled to the 5' 10" modelesque woman
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 16:06     Subject: Is being a short man that much of a difficulty in dating
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I've dated two short men, one I had a serious relationship with in my late 20s, and my DH. I'm 5'7" and both of them were 5'6" or a little taller.

Both are super attractive, charming, fun, and very athletic. One is a doctor who went Harvard med, and one is a big fed lawyer (as am I, that's where we met). Neither had any trouble finding attractive women to date/marry. No issues for them.


What is Big Fed? Does it pay more, because I’m guessing that he makes good money is always the answer for short men. Yes you make good money too, but would have discounted this guy if he was a nonprofit lawyer.


Big Fed means like an agency general counsel or some other important lawyer job. Like Solicitor General of the United States, or a US Attorney.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 16:02     Subject: Is being a short man that much of a difficulty in dating
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think everyone knows that (on average, to some extent), height matters, just as weight matters for women.

But many other factors matter, and generally matter much more, including sense of humor, kindness, responsibility, and being good at listening, none of which can be quantified the way height (or weight or salary) can be.

So people end up focusing on and blaming those quantifiable factors rather than personality.


Weight is a waaaaaay bigger deal with women then height is for men.


Isn’t there a GLP-1 for adult men to grow taller?


Not yet.

Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 16:02     Subject: Is being a short man that much of a difficulty in dating
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I've dated two short men, one I had a serious relationship with in my late 20s, and my DH. I'm 5'7" and both of them were 5'6" or a little taller.

Both are super attractive, charming, fun, and very athletic. One is a doctor who went Harvard med, and one is a big fed lawyer (as am I, that's where we met). Neither had any trouble finding attractive women to date/marry. No issues for them.


What is Big Fed? Does it pay more, because I’m guessing that he makes good money is always the answer for short men. Yes you make good money too, but would have discounted this guy if he was a nonprofit lawyer.


What? No, I would not have. Would have been just as attracted if he worked for a nonprofit. I make my own money.

Big Fed refers to fed legal jobs that are highly respected, hard to get, and often pay more. For example SEC ... some DOJ components ... that kind of thing.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 15:51     Subject: Is being a short man that much of a difficulty in dating
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think everyone knows that (on average, to some extent), height matters, just as weight matters for women.

But many other factors matter, and generally matter much more, including sense of humor, kindness, responsibility, and being good at listening, none of which can be quantified the way height (or weight or salary) can be.

So people end up focusing on and blaming those quantifiable factors rather than personality.


Weight is a waaaaaay bigger deal with women then height is for men.


Isn’t there a GLP-1 for adult men to grow taller?
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 15:49     Subject: Is being a short man that much of a difficulty in dating
Anonymous wrote:I've dated two short men, one I had a serious relationship with in my late 20s, and my DH. I'm 5'7" and both of them were 5'6" or a little taller.

Both are super attractive, charming, fun, and very athletic. One is a doctor who went Harvard med, and one is a big fed lawyer (as am I, that's where we met). Neither had any trouble finding attractive women to date/marry. No issues for them.


What is Big Fed? Does it pay more, because I’m guessing that he makes good money is always the answer for short men. Yes you make good money too, but would have discounted this guy if he was a nonprofit lawyer.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 15:45     Subject: Is being a short man that much of a difficulty in dating
My spouse is 5'7'', I'm a 5'8'' woman and absolutely tower over him in heels, but I don'tmind. I know plenty of guys my height or shorter who have done just fine. I met my spouse in college, we were both broke at the time.

There's nothing more unattractive than a guy who's hostile or defensive about his height. But some tall men will also have something they're weird and defensive about. Going in with that posture is a HUGE red flag for women.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 14:26     Subject: Is being a short man that much of a difficulty in dating
5'9'' is not short. There are some women who won't date under 6 feet but that's not the norm. 5'7'' or shorter can be more of an issue. It's stupid really.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 14:06     Subject: Is being a short man that much of a difficulty in dating
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think everyone knows that (on average, to some extent), height matters, just as weight matters for women.

But many other factors matter, and generally matter much more, including sense of humor, kindness, responsibility, and being good at listening, none of which can be quantified the way height (or weight or salary) can be.

So people end up focusing on and blaming those quantifiable factors rather than personality.


Weight is a waaaaaay bigger deal with women then height is for men.


+1

If you want to equate height for men with weight for women, you need to be looking at men under 5'5".