Anonymous wrote:Will the Jim Ryan debacle and the request for governing board resignations affect admissions this year?
Anonymous wrote:I went to UVA and absolutely loved it but I can see how it might not be for everyone. I see no issue in people whose kid didn't get in, sharing that their kid is very happy where they are. Doesn't that help as there will be kids who don't get in whenever the decisions come out? I don't think it dampens the excitement of those who do get in.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Honestly I have no idea what these people are talking about…my child is a first year and is so overly involved in so many things, I beg them to cut back. Lol. Maybe if you’re only interested in the tippy top very competitive clubs, sure you might feel this way. But my kid and several friends are having the time of their lives and cannot fit in all the things they want to do! It’s a gem of a place. Good luck!
Same experience for my second year. Plenty of ways to be involved other than the hyper-competitive clubs. She's super involved and also finding many ways to have fun. The school is amazing
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Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Good luck, but be fully prepared for a rejection or waitlist. Many, many highly qualified students don’t get in to UVA for one reason or another that is no reflection on their intelligence or ability. My DD thought UVA was where she wanted, but she was waitlisted and offered the UVA Year In Wise option. She declined and is now very happy at another school and realizes that it’s a better fit for her than UVA would have been. In short - don’t stress. It will work out the way it’s meant to.
She has no way of knowing that.
+1. It’s very bad form on a post about GETTING IN to UVA that a mom posts sour grapes about not getting in .. and of course “it wouldn’t have been a good fit” - OK, if true, then then why did you ever apply? Why dirty up a thread about those getting excited about getting in with such negativity?
Anonymous wrote:Honestly I have no idea what these people are talking about…my child is a first year and is so overly involved in so many things, I beg them to cut back. Lol. Maybe if you’re only interested in the tippy top very competitive clubs, sure you might feel this way. But my kid and several friends are having the time of their lives and cannot fit in all the things they want to do! It’s a gem of a place. Good luck!
Anonymous wrote:Will the Jim Ryan debacle and the request for governing board resignations affect admissions this year?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Although it does help some of us so nervous, that reading these negative posts help calm the mind.😅
I disagree. It’s ugly behavior to come on a thread about ED decisions and voluntarily throw up that your kid who didn’t get in wouldn’t have liked it there. Fine. Go somewhere else but it’s rude. No one cares about your opinion. There are 24,000 undergrads and even more grad students who are thrilled to be there and enjoy the financial benefits of being in-state.
Anonymous wrote:Although it does help some of us so nervous, that reading these negative posts help calm the mind.😅
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Good luck, but be fully prepared for a rejection or waitlist. Many, many highly qualified students don’t get in to UVA for one reason or another that is no reflection on their intelligence or ability. My DD thought UVA was where she wanted, but she was waitlisted and offered the UVA Year In Wise option. She declined and is now very happy at another school and realizes that it’s a better fit for her than UVA would have been. In short - don’t stress. It will work out the way it’s meant to.
She has no way of knowing that.
Anonymous wrote:Good luck, but be fully prepared for a rejection or waitlist. Many, many highly qualified students don’t get in to UVA for one reason or another that is no reflection on their intelligence or ability. My DD thought UVA was where she wanted, but she was waitlisted and offered the UVA Year In Wise option. She declined and is now very happy at another school [b]and realizes that it’s a better fit for her than UVA would have been.[/b] In short - don’t stress. It will work out the way it’s meant to.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Good luck, but be fully prepared for a rejection or waitlist. Many, many highly qualified students don’t get in to UVA for one reason or another that is no reflection on their intelligence or ability. My DD thought UVA was where she wanted, but she was waitlisted and offered the UVA Year In Wise option. She declined and is now very happy at another school and realizes that it’s a better fit for her than UVA would have been. In short - don’t stress. It will work out the way it’s meant to.
She has no way of knowing that.
She has friends at UVA who say that getting into clubs and extracurriculars is highly competitive. The campus is filled with Tracy Flicks who were all top of their class in high school and who expect to be #1. That’s great if you thrive in that environment, but my DD would not. She has joined lots of clubs and made friends at her school. She knows deep down that UVA would have been more difficult socially, for her personally. UVA is a great school, but not for everyone.