Anonymous wrote:I think it's totally ridiculous and indulgent to expect friends to go on an international birthday trip. You can decline for any reason whatsoever. I would not tell her politics is the reason, though.
Anonymous wrote:I don't know - I travel to go see places - not to make friends with the people there? I also shop at Target and don't really care about how they run their business model since all big co are guilty of something. That's just meI wouldn't go if you don't feel comfortable but I happen to think people who are too judgy are hypocrites because I assure you, every country to some degree sucks.
I mean Trump heads our country. What do you think about living here??!!

I wouldn't go if you don't feel comfortable but I happen to think people who are too judgy are hypocrites because I assure you, every country to some degree sucks.
Anonymous wrote:The country won't miss your money. But your friend might miss you.
Donate to a targeted charity if you feel guilty but want to go.
Anonymous wrote:I skipped a group trip to Thailand years ago when they were drowning Rohingya refugees. I felt a little jealous looking at everyone’s pictures (there will be so many pictures) but I didn’t regret it. I’m a little less self-righteous now, so I’d probably go to Thailand if the opportunity came up. Can’t be on a high horse as an American, sadly.
Anonymous wrote:My guess is her friend wants to travel to Dubai in the UAE.