Anonymous
12/03/2025 12:32
Subject: Narc ex - 2am rage texts. Make it stop?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our family wizard
Not OP, but does OFW really stop the rage texts? Right now in the early stages of things and have ample evidence to get OFW court ordered, but is it legitimately worth it? I know I could block him then, which would be so nice, but I'd still have to read messages in the app.
Knowing that a judge would be reading them at some point if necessary should do the trick.
PP here. Spouse already knows the judge will read texts (in proper format for being read). Lawyers have provided ample reminders. Still cannot change. I really do mean cannot, not will not or chooses not. At this point I'm assuming all OFW will give me is ability to only read messages when I log into the app, communication style will not change.
Of course, the spouse can change. That's ridiculous. I bet you a contempt order or similar from a judge would stop it immediately.
Anonymous
12/03/2025 12:26
Subject: Narc ex - 2am rage texts. Make it stop?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our family wizard
Not OP, but does OFW really stop the rage texts? Right now in the early stages of things and have ample evidence to get OFW court ordered, but is it legitimately worth it? I know I could block him then, which would be so nice, but I'd still have to read messages in the app.
Knowing that a judge would be reading them at some point if necessary should do the trick.
PP here. Spouse already knows the judge will read texts (in proper format for being read). Lawyers have provided ample reminders. Still cannot change. I really do mean cannot, not will not or chooses not. At this point I'm assuming all OFW will give me is ability to only read messages when I log into the app, communication style will not change.
Anonymous
12/03/2025 12:14
Subject: Narc ex - 2am rage texts. Make it stop?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our family wizard
Not OP, but does OFW really stop the rage texts? Right now in the early stages of things and have ample evidence to get OFW court ordered, but is it legitimately worth it? I know I could block him then, which would be so nice, but I'd still have to read messages in the app.
Knowing that a judge would be reading them at some point if necessary should do the trick.
Anonymous
12/03/2025 12:13
Subject: Narc ex - 2am rage texts. Make it stop?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Block his number. Use a coparenting app.
+1
plus million. This is exactly the situation they are designed for.
Anonymous
12/03/2025 12:12
Subject: Narc ex - 2am rage texts. Make it stop?
Anonymous wrote:Our family wizard
Not OP, but does OFW really stop the rage texts? Right now in the early stages of things and have ample evidence to get OFW court ordered, but is it legitimately worth it? I know I could block him then, which would be so nice, but I'd still have to read messages in the app.
Anonymous
12/03/2025 11:17
Subject: Narc ex - 2am rage texts. Make it stop?
You can’t change him or his behavior, but you can change how/if you respond.
Anonymous
12/03/2025 10:51
Subject: Narc ex - 2am rage texts. Make it stop?
Do not give this any response. Use the parenting app only.