Even without atrophy, i feel the intensity of the big O decreases as we age.

I am on Lexapro and that affects my ability to O easily

My GYN suggested two things (1) topical estrogen and (2) practice, practice, practice. Meaning buy yourself some toys.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here - I did see my doctor and she sees some signs of atrophy. I just started vaginal estrogen a few days ago... I'll report back (if I remember to do so) in a while!

And I have since talked with my partner about this issue and he could not be more supportive and understanding.

What are the signs for the rest of us?

She said the tissue deeper inside my vagina was pale, indicating less blood flow to the area, I guess. I also notice that my clitoris is smaller than it used to be, and less sensitive.

Anonymous wrote:OP here - I did see my doctor and she sees some signs of atrophy. I just started vaginal estrogen a few days ago... I'll report back (if I remember to do so) in a while!

And I have since talked with my partner about this issue and he could not be more supportive and understanding.

What are the signs for the rest of us?

OP here - I did see my doctor and she sees some signs of atrophy. I just started vaginal estrogen a few days ago... I'll report back (if I remember to do so) in a while!

And I have since talked with my partner about this issue and he could not be more supportive and understanding.

Honestly it sounds more like stress. You are still too young for an atrophy to haven.

Anonymous wrote:Yes girl use it or lose it!

Not helpful or funny

I’m struggling with the same issue. It’s awful. I’ve been completely depressed. I hadn’t heard the term clitoral atrophy until about a year ago. I’m 55, on HRT for about a year. My ob/gyn told me that when we get older, blood flow throughout our body (at least for some of us) doesn’t work like it used to. I went to a sexual health specialist and he put me on a low dose of Cialis, yes, the ED pill. It addresses blood flow. It helped somewhat, but I was still far from “normal.”

I came across an ad for something called Ristela, which is supposed to help the blood flow/satisfaction issue. I checked with my doctor and he said give it a try for a couple of months. The manufacturer said it takes about 2 months to kick in. I’ve been taking it about a month and I just had a normal O with my husband for the first time in about 18 months to 2 years! Will it continue to work? I sure as hell hope so. I’m don’t work for big pharma or the supplement maker. I would definitely email your doc and make sure it isn’t contraindicated with any meds you are on. Good luck!

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Anonymous wrote:are you on an SSRI?

I know how important my orgasms are to my new partner and I don't want to start the relationship off with my own dysfunction getting in the way.

You aren't dysfunctional. He is. His last partners faked it for his ego, and he wants you to fake it too.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Eventually even self pleasure with a vibrator will not feel very good even with vag estrogen and then orgasms will bring pain.

True for you. Not necessarily true for anyone else - certainly not for me.

Nor is it true for me, in my 80s.

woo hoo!

I’ve found some improvement with T.

Question: do you need vaginal estrogen if you’re using an estrogen patch. Vaginal estrogen is the one thing my provider hasn’t brought up.