I hear you.

I get sad at days and the start of the school year (moving up a grade).

They're not "cute" anymore, but a lot more fun in new ways. Places like DL or DW are more fun, interactive, more endurance, etc
It opens up a whole new exciting chapter.

Just be present in the moment. Enjoy it for what it is .

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Anonymous wrote:Do you have trouble accepting a lot of things that are inevitable? This sounds like some kind of anxiety you might want to seek help for.

How nasty. I'm sorry your parents didn't raise you to be kind.

^^ ironic comment

I used to feel a bit sad too but I have an awesome 20 yr old. It’s a different relationship with him but I think I like it better now. He’s mostly independent and I no longer have to actively parent I finally get to enjoy him.

My delightful daughter just turned 4 and I feel the same way. I have three kids and it’s bittersweet watching them get older! But what a privilege it is. You hope and pray that they are healthy and grow up well.

Anonymous wrote:I think most of this hinges on having an only child. While I celebrate my kids birthdays and can get sentimental I don't get sad when they have their birthdays. But we have birthdays all freaking year and I want a month without a birthday party to plan!

you

do have 12 kids?

Anonymous wrote:Do you have trouble accepting a lot of things that are inevitable? This sounds like some kind of anxiety you might want to seek help for.

How nasty. I'm sorry your parents didn't raise you to be kind.