Anonymous wrote:I guess the fetal monitors could be a hindrance if you really wanted to get up and walk around and give birth in the tub and all that, but if you had an epidural, how would they even affect you? I have 2 kids and had an epidural both times and there was no way I was getting out of that hospital bed. They could have strapped whatever to my stomach and it wouldn’t have made a difference. I have to assume most women are getting an epidural, and a lot of women who aren’t, are giving birth outside a hospital - at home or in a birth center, where you wouldn’t expect much monitoring or much in the way of medical interventions anyway. So this seems like a problem for only a small sub set of women …
Anonymous wrote:Fetal monitoring saved my kid’s life, so I’m fine with it.
Anonymous wrote:If you aren't a doctor, you can't say what is a necessary c section and what isn't. Patients who "want" a certain kind of birth don't get to dictate it either.
Doctors aren't perfect, but they have very extensive training and continuously updated information on how to keep mothers and children healthy. Your Instagram feed does not.
Anonymous wrote:If you aren't a doctor, you can't say what is a necessary c section and what isn't. Patients who "want" a certain kind of birth don't get to dictate it either.
Doctors aren't perfect, but they have very extensive training and continuously updated information on how to keep mothers and children healthy. Your Instagram feed does not.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Fetal monitoring saved my kid’s life, so I’m fine with it.
Yeah, that's what it's for. This is the problem with people's anecdotal reactions to stuff like the OP, in my opinion. The regulations that get in the way of an ideal childbirth experience (wandering around in a dimly lit room with your selected birth posse and your playlist/meditations on repeat while doctors stay out of the way and the ghost of Ina May encourages your healthy baby out on a wave of feminist empowerment) are there to prevent a worst-case outcome. For people who benefit they can see the rationale plainly. The people who weren't close to a bad outcome can only see that they were prevented from experiencing their ideal outcome.
Doctors don't care about ideal they care about alive. As they should.
In no other area of medicine is this true. If I go in for knee replacement and have a leg amputated absolutely no one will say “yeah but your other healthy femur is all that matters”. Avoiding the worst case is literally the bare minimum expectation of medicine. It’s amazing how little you want patients to settle for when they’re only women.
Completely ridiculous analogy. And ignores that there are two patients in a delivery ward. And acts like avoiding death is a simple, easily achievable "bare minimum" when in fact childbirth was the leading cause of death for women for a lot of human history, so avoiding death in childbirth is a pretty big deal! But I'm sorry your leg was amputated during your C-section; you can actually sue over that.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Fetal monitoring saved my kid’s life, so I’m fine with it.
Yeah, that's what it's for. This is the problem with people's anecdotal reactions to stuff like the OP, in my opinion. The regulations that get in the way of an ideal childbirth experience (wandering around in a dimly lit room with your selected birth posse and your playlist/meditations on repeat while doctors stay out of the way and the ghost of Ina May encourages your healthy baby out on a wave of feminist empowerment) are there to prevent a worst-case outcome. For people who benefit they can see the rationale plainly. The people who weren't close to a bad outcome can only see that they were prevented from experiencing their ideal outcome.
Doctors don't care about ideal they care about alive. As they should.
In no other area of medicine is this true. If I go in for knee replacement and have a leg amputated absolutely no one will say “yeah but your other healthy femur is all that matters”. Avoiding the worst case is literally the bare minimum expectation of medicine. It’s amazing how little you want patients to settle for when they’re only women.
Completely ridiculous analogy. And ignores that there are two patients in a delivery ward. And acts like avoiding death is a simple, easily achievable "bare minimum" when in fact childbirth was the leading cause of death for women for a lot of human history, so avoiding death in childbirth is a pretty big deal! But I'm sorry your leg was amputated during your C-section; you can actually sue over that.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I gave birth to my first 20 years ago and this was a thing then. The system sucks and women pay
The system is designed to keep women alive, and if you look over the course of history, the current one does a very very very good job. They may overprescribe c-sections but it’s 10000% better than the alternative.
When you find the solution that strikes the *perfect* balance you go ahead and let us know!
No, the system is designed for the convenience of doctors and to attempt to prevent lawsuits. It is absolutely not the goal to keep mother's and babies alive
Lawsuits happen because things ended badly. I'll take mild discomfort over a bad ending any day when they err on the side of safety and an abundance of caution.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I find PP's post about no monitoring at GW strange, because I was monitored continuously there with no known issues and it was ridiculous considering I was trying to do the whole doula/midwife/move around and work that baby out approach.
With my second I was at Sibley and while they strapped the monitor to me when I checked in, they treated it more like a backup indicator than robot boss - when it moved and we lost the heartbeat they were never concerned because it was pretty obvious nothing was wrong and the baby just wiggled out of range.
I had the opposite experience at Sibley 18 years ago.
Anonymous wrote:Re: fetal monitor. I remember the nurse wouldn't let me use the restroom because the baby's heart slowed down when I stood up (had to use a bedpan).
C-sections: I had two c-sections. I figured the second was likely because of the first (failure to progress) but I suppose I could have tried for a vbac first.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Fetal monitoring saved my kid’s life, so I’m fine with it.
Yeah, that's what it's for. This is the problem with people's anecdotal reactions to stuff like the OP, in my opinion. The regulations that get in the way of an ideal childbirth experience (wandering around in a dimly lit room with your selected birth posse and your playlist/meditations on repeat while doctors stay out of the way and the ghost of Ina May encourages your healthy baby out on a wave of feminist empowerment) are there to prevent a worst-case outcome. For people who benefit they can see the rationale plainly. The people who weren't close to a bad outcome can only see that they were prevented from experiencing their ideal outcome.
Doctors don't care about ideal they care about alive. As they should.
In no other area of medicine is this true. If I go in for knee replacement and have a leg amputated absolutely no one will say “yeah but your other healthy femur is all that matters”. Avoiding the worst case is literally the bare minimum expectation of medicine. It’s amazing how little you want patients to settle for when they’re only women.
Completely ridiculous analogy. And ignores that there are two patients in a delivery ward. And acts like avoiding death is a simple, easily achievable "bare minimum" when in fact childbirth was the leading cause of death for women for a lot of human history, so avoiding death in childbirth is a pretty big deal! But I'm sorry your leg was amputated during your C-section; you can actually sue over that.