Anonymous
Post 10/11/2025 16:25     Subject: College BF Names Daughter Same As Me
I’m guessing it was more that he didn’t tell his wife no than that he wanted it.
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2025 16:23     Subject: College BF Names Daughter Same As Me
Obvioisly he is still hung up.
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2025 15:23     Subject: College BF Names Daughter Same As Me
Depends if it is a common name or not
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2025 15:17     Subject: Re:College BF Names Daughter Same As Me
Anonymous wrote:It's not necessarily that deep - maybe he and his wife just liked the name.


This.

It would have been weirder if he denied his wife naming her daughter what she wanted because of you.
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2025 14:55     Subject: College BF Names Daughter Same As Me
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You're 28. Move on from college.


Ha.. This!


How is being told your ex named your kid after you not moving on from college?
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2025 13:56     Subject: College BF Names Daughter Same As Me
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My family has a tradition of giving kids their grandparents names as middle names going back several generations.

I’ve got two kids both of whom we have one of their grandparent names as middle names.

One of those names is also the name of one of my DH’s exs. We knew that, but we decided to continue the family tradition anyway.

Oh, the craziness that ensued. She literally called DHto ask him if our daughter’s name was a sign he still loved her!

Don’t assume everything is about you.


My friends loved the name, let’s say Zoey, so they named their cat Zoey. Got pregnant and regretted using up the name they liked on their cat but then says screw it and changed their cat’s name to lets say Chloe and named their kid Zoey. I thought that was hilarious.


Ha! We didn’t do this but ran into similar. LOVED the name we gave our dog when we found out we were having a boy. Dog was 6 and didn’t consider changing it but it was HARD to come up with something we liked as much.
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2025 13:24     Subject: College BF Names Daughter Same As Me
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Women pick the names 100%. She probably suggested it and he said great. He has 100% forgotten about you totally so the name didn't ring a bell.


Wrong. Men pick the names.



Men usually pick their son's name, and will let their wife pick their daughter's name.
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2025 13:04     Subject: College BF Names Daughter Same As Me
Anonymous wrote:I heard, through a half dozen friends within about 2 hours of the birth, that my boyfriend of 3 years in college gave his newborn daughter the same name as mine. My name is not common. We are 28.

That is weird, right?


Maybe. But maybe it is a name he and his wife both agreed on.

I named my cat after a college GF because I thought it was the perfect cat name, not because I was still in love with college GF.
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2025 12:21     Subject: College BF Names Daughter Same As Me
Anonymous wrote:You're 28. Move on from college.


Ha.. This!
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2025 09:50     Subject: College BF Names Daughter Same As Me
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He and his wife just probably like your uncommon name.


She probably doesn't know it's his ex's name.


+ 1


-1

Did you just marry some rando off the street or did you get to know the guy at all?
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2025 09:48     Subject: College BF Names Daughter Same As Me
Anonymous wrote:Women pick the names 100%. She probably suggested it and he said great. He has 100% forgotten about you totally so the name didn't ring a bell.


Wrong. Men pick the names.

Anonymous
Post 10/11/2025 09:40     Subject: College BF Names Daughter Same As Me
Women pick the names 100%. She probably suggested it and he said great. He has 100% forgotten about you totally so the name didn't ring a bell.
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2025 09:26     Subject: College BF Names Daughter Same As Me
It’s weird. I once suggested a name to my DH and he said no bc he had a crush on someone with that name at some point. In the literal decades since he said that he has never mentioned that person again, and hadn’t before.
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2025 09:17     Subject: College BF Names Daughter Same As Me
Anonymous wrote:My family has a tradition of giving kids their grandparents names as middle names going back several generations.

I’ve got two kids both of whom we have one of their grandparent names as middle names.

One of those names is also the name of one of my DH’s exs. We knew that, but we decided to continue the family tradition anyway.

Oh, the craziness that ensued. She literally called DHto ask him if our daughter’s name was a sign he still loved her!

Don’t assume everything is about you.


My friends loved the name, let’s say Zoey, so they named their cat Zoey. Got pregnant and regretted using up the name they liked on their cat but then says screw it and changed their cat’s name to lets say Chloe and named their kid Zoey. I thought that was hilarious.
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2025 09:17     Subject: College BF Names Daughter Same As Me
You don’t know them. Maybe her beloved grandmother shares your name.