How old is the oldest girl in the family? At work there was a similar situation with a co-worker and felt sorry for the oldest girl who was left cooking, cleaning and taking care of the youngest kids. So I dropped off food only because it was helping out the oldest girl who was around 13.

When I did I asked the dad if I could take the 13 year old to get some ice cream at the store so she could pick out the family favorite ice cream then quickly took her to her favorite take out place so she could eat a meal in peace in the car while I ran into the store and bought a couple of tubs of ice cream and ice cream cones.

I had a friend who was the oldest girl in a traditional large family and saw how she suffered. Granted she had some great times too but she had way way too much responsibility. Not surprising she only had one child.

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Anonymous wrote:I wouldn’t give them shit! Also, I wouldn’t hesitate to tell my colleagues why I wasn’t participating if asked.

Aholes usually aren’t embarrassed so you fit that perfectly.

Pp here. I have no shame about my views and will not hesitate to express them if the situation warrants it. Catholics are mostly a bunch of homophobic misogynist pedos so I will do nothing for them! Have a lovely day! 😘

If I don't know someone well enough to know their exact food preferences, I'm not getting involved in a meal train. So no, I would not do this.

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Anonymous wrote:Do not visit the sins of the parents unto the children. If the kids can eat better with a meal train, do the meal train. Regardless of their parents' beliefs (which I heartily disapprove of).

suffering will make them stronger. These 7 kids are also going to get horrible parenting. Somebody should call CPS on them.

What was the names of the CPS workers called on you?

can't remember. I was 12.

Haven’t grown since.

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn’t give them shit! Also, I wouldn’t hesitate to tell my colleagues why I wasn’t participating if asked.

Aholes usually aren’t embarrassed so you fit that perfectly.

Nope you are not.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do not visit the sins of the parents unto the children. If the kids can eat better with a meal train, do the meal train. Regardless of their parents' beliefs (which I heartily disapprove of).

suffering will make them stronger. These 7 kids are also going to get horrible parenting. Somebody should call CPS on them.

What was the names of the CPS workers called on you?

can't remember. I was 12.

Anonymous wrote:You’re not obligated to participate in any of these things. Just don’t do it and don’t talk about it.

+1. Don’t talk about it and don’t do it.

The neighborhood mom clique is always trying to set up meal trains for truly dumb reasons. I don’t have time for that nonsense.

Anonymous wrote:Their politics are irrelevant to me. I would contribute if that is something I usually did for coworkers for births and illnesses. Children are a blessing.

🤮🤮🤮

I wouldn’t give them shit! Also, I wouldn’t hesitate to tell my colleagues why I wasn’t participating if asked.

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Anonymous wrote:Do not visit the sins of the parents unto the children. If the kids can eat better with a meal train, do the meal train. Regardless of their parents' beliefs (which I heartily disapprove of).

The kids won't starve.. which is the other thing bothering me no meal train was organized when staff on the lower income spectrum welcomed new babies and in two cases they were first children.
They can definitely afford to hire help and order from Uber eats

PP you replied to. If you feel there is no need to participate, then don't. And next time you think someone actually needs the help, YOU can initiate a meal train, or whatever else you think they need.

It is clear you don't want to help, so please don't.

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Anonymous wrote:Do not visit the sins of the parents unto the children. If the kids can eat better with a meal train, do the meal train. Regardless of their parents' beliefs (which I heartily disapprove of).

suffering will make them stronger. These 7 kids are also going to get horrible parenting. Somebody should call CPS on them.

What was the names of the CPS workers called on you?

Anonymous wrote:Do not visit the sins of the parents unto the children. If the kids can eat better with a meal train, do the meal train. Regardless of their parents' beliefs (which I heartily disapprove of).

suffering will make them stronger. These 7 kids are also going to get horrible parenting. Somebody should call CPS on them.

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Anonymous wrote:I would not.

You can congratulate them to be civil and that's enough.

I will congratulate them because I do think children are a blessing I also think people should get to choose when and how many they are blessed with.

Except you object to their choice to have these babies?