Anonymous wrote:They see married men as taken and more desirable because another competing female has marked them as so

+1

This has been studied.

Anonymous wrote:Why do all these married men hit on me - literally all the time? I don’t want them. But please explain the psychology. I think it happens so much more often than women hitting on married men.

Dead bedrooms = dead relationships.

Why do all these married men hit on me - literally all the time? I don’t want them. But please explain the psychology. I think it happens so much more often than women hitting on married men.

DH travels for work frequently and is an executive for a large tech company; he often travels business class and enjoys dinners at upscale restaurants. Women throw themselves at him, despite him telling them that he is married; it's pretty amusing, it's not even a conversation, it goes from hi, what do you do and why are you here (he says he's at a work function for this company), next thing they are talking about sex and stuff, etc, and he is dorky. Like, no thanks, what's wrong with you, and then they get angry and more aggressive. Often, it's the rejection that gets them worked up. One time I pretended not to know him and just observed, and it was crazy, these are also professional women, not just randoms.

Both of the women who wanted to be with my husband had daddy issues and liked dating an older guy, but most older guys are married.

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Anonymous wrote:As Muslims we are technically allowed to have multiple marriages yet only 1-2% of men among billion actually have more than one wife. Majority of men and women just don't accept time share spouses.

I think the majority of people don't have the right opportunity. People are as faithful as their options, and most people don't have great options.

Not necessarily. Men in my family had opportunities and resources.

Anonymous wrote:Why are some women more likely to approach a married men?

I think a single man is less likely to approach a woman who is married. But for some single women, they just don't care. Why??

Low self esteem.

If they get shot down it doesn't bother them then.

Anonymous wrote:Why are some women more likely to approach a married men?

I think a single man is less likely to approach a woman who is married. But for some single women, they just don't care. Why??

This deserves some research. Where can I find these women, so I can study the behavior?

Anonymous wrote:They have triangulation issues. They want to take on a challenge and defeat the other woman. They want to win.

Win what? Attention? Sex? If he ends up divorced, he’ll probably be broke and have no free time because he’ll actually have to start parenting.

I used to stress when DH travelled for work; now I'm like, have him. I’ll gladly take my half of the assets, plus have some actual nights off parenting to date someone younger and cuter.

Anonymous wrote:Oh! I tend to chat up married men if I'm traveling alone and am having dinner at the bar of a restaurant. If I see a ring and also hear them say "my wife" then they are a safe person to chat with, and won't try to have sex with me.

Lol I used to travel for work extensively and these were exactly the guys who tried to have sex with me.

They have triangulation issues. They want to take on a challenge and defeat the other woman. They want to win.