Anonymous
09/14/2025 15:43
Subject: How to handle disgruntled online seller
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, people are really struggling these days. It’s the cause of her anger. If you want to return it, do it but don’t expect her to be happy too.
She doesn't have to be happy. There's no reason to get into it with her. Start the return- if she doesn't cooperate, have ebay step in. No reason to get into a fight.
It's highly unprofessional. Do other shoppers a heads-up and leave negative feedback for this nasty seller.
Anonymous
09/14/2025 15:40
Subject: How to handle disgruntled online seller
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This whole thread reinforces why I won't shop (or sell) on these kinds of sites.
Good! If you are the kind of person who expects tailored sweaters custom fit to your form, eBay is not the place for that.
You can technically send it back, but that is not normal for eBay and you will get a negative review most likely. Your return is outside norms for the site.
Now you're making things up.
Anonymous
09/14/2025 15:39
Subject: How to handle disgruntled online seller
Anonymous wrote:OP, people are really struggling these days. It’s the cause of her anger. If you want to return it, do it but don’t expect her to be happy too.
She doesn't have to be happy. There's no reason to get into it with her. Start the return- if she doesn't cooperate, have ebay step in. No reason to get into a fight.
Anonymous
09/14/2025 15:36
Subject: How to handle disgruntled online seller
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ebay isn't Nordstroms op why should the seller have to pay return shipping because you don't like it. They also paid ebay sellers fees on that. Donate the sweater and don't be a jerk.
Disagree- this is why sellers post their return policy which Op is adhering to. If seller isn’t willing to have returns, they should put no returns allowed.
This. I don't buy clothes from sellers who don't allow returns. Seller is trying to take advantage of that by drawing people in and then not following her own policy.
Exactly. The seller is a cheat
+1. Leave a negative review and escalate it with Ebay.
Anonymous
09/14/2025 15:33
Subject: How to handle disgruntled online seller
OP, people are really struggling these days. It’s the cause of her anger. If you want to return it, do it but don’t expect her to be happy too.
Anonymous
09/14/2025 15:17
Subject: How to handle disgruntled online seller
Anonymous wrote:Ebay isn't Nordstroms op why should the seller have to pay return shipping because you don't like it. They also paid ebay sellers fees on that. Donate the sweater and don't be a jerk.
Agree. eBay returns should be for damaged goods etc. If not, donate or resell yourself on eBay or elsewhere.
Anonymous
09/14/2025 15:03
Subject: How to handle disgruntled online seller
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ebay isn't Nordstroms op why should the seller have to pay return shipping because you don't like it. They also paid ebay sellers fees on that. Donate the sweater and don't be a jerk.
Disagree- this is why sellers post their return policy which Op is adhering to. If seller isn’t willing to have returns, they should put no returns allowed.
This. I don't buy clothes from sellers who don't allow returns. Seller is trying to take advantage of that by drawing people in and then not following her own policy.
Exactly. The seller is a cheat
Anonymous
09/14/2025 15:02
Subject: How to handle disgruntled online seller
Anonymous wrote:Constantly shopping and returning is just dopamine seeking and remorse. If you do this, consider medication or lifestyle changes. It isn’t about the clothes - no one wants to deal with your pathology.
Black and white thinking is an indicator of pathology, a cluster B disorder.
Someone can buy and return something and it does not mean they are ‘constantly’ shopping and returning items
Anonymous
09/14/2025 14:33
Subject: How to handle disgruntled online seller
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ebay isn't Nordstroms op why should the seller have to pay return shipping because you don't like it. They also paid ebay sellers fees on that. Donate the sweater and don't be a jerk.
Disagree- this is why sellers post their return policy which Op is adhering to. If seller isn’t willing to have returns, they should put no returns allowed.
This. I don't buy clothes from sellers who don't allow returns. Seller is trying to take advantage of that by drawing people in and then not following her own policy.
This is correct.
Anonymous
09/14/2025 13:10
Subject: How to handle disgruntled online seller
Anonymous wrote:Constantly shopping and returning is just dopamine seeking and remorse. If you do this, consider medication or lifestyle changes. It isn’t about the clothes - no one wants to deal with your pathology.
Buying crap and returning it non-stop is not a hobby OP. That ebay seller probably needs the money and you are wasting their time and their money with your mental issues. Keep it and get a therapist and ask yourself why you do this.
Anonymous
09/14/2025 12:06
Subject: How to handle disgruntled online seller
Constantly shopping and returning is just dopamine seeking and remorse. If you do this, consider medication or lifestyle changes. It isn’t about the clothes - no one wants to deal with your pathology.
Anonymous
09/14/2025 11:54
Subject: How to handle disgruntled online seller
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ebay isn't Nordstroms op why should the seller have to pay return shipping because you don't like it. They also paid ebay sellers fees on that. Donate the sweater and don't be a jerk.
Disagree- this is why sellers post their return policy which Op is adhering to. If seller isn’t willing to have returns, they should put no returns allowed.
This. I don't buy clothes from sellers who don't allow returns. Seller is trying to take advantage of that by drawing people in and then not following her own policy.
Anonymous
09/14/2025 10:48
Subject: How to handle disgruntled online seller
Anonymous wrote:You shouldn't be returning it for a bad fit. It's not a store. Pay for shipping.
Sellers set their policies. They can require the buyer to pay for shipping.
Anonymous
09/14/2025 10:46
Subject: How to handle disgruntled online seller
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think this is jerk behavior. Returns are for when the item is defective. Or you got a size large and it was labeled medium. Sellers have to pay shipping both ways when you return
Not for clothes. Don't tell clothes somewhere with returns if you don't want to accept returns.
+100000
Anonymous
09/14/2025 10:45
Subject: How to handle disgruntled online seller
Anonymous wrote:I think this is jerk behavior. Returns are for when the item is defective. Or you got a size large and it was labeled medium. Sellers have to pay shipping both ways when you return
Not for clothes. Don't tell clothes somewhere with returns if you don't want to accept returns.