Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think this is necessarily unusual, but as I’ve gotten older (I’m a 40F), I’m basically only attracted to 6/6/6/8+ men. At least 6 feet, 6 pack, 6 figures, and 8 inches. And they need to have a muscular 6 pack, not deathly skinny 6 pack.

I don’t know why. In my 20s and 30s I was attracted to a wide range of men, short, fat, broke, etc. But now I can’t do it.

I have seen the numbers on this stupid viral standard and just the 6/6/6/ standard in less half a percent of men. Throw in the 8" requirement and you probably have better odds of walking through a random forest and spotting a unicorn.

Ironically, in this area the 6' and 6 figure income probably aren't that hard to find. The six pack is where it starts to get tricky, there are more millionaires in the US than men with 6 packs.

I think the 8” is probably the most rare. I don’t think many women are able to really estimate size to the inch. 8”+ is an outlier, though those guys probably have the confidence to get around more, so it seems more common!

I’ll go with something more unusual. I had a fling in college with a woman who had very cylindrical shaped breasts. Not like saggy, just oddly shaped compared to most that I’ve seen. I think back on them fondly.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think this is necessarily unusual, but as I’ve gotten older (I’m a 40F), I’m basically only attracted to 6/6/6/8+ men. At least 6 feet, 6 pack, 6 figures, and 8 inches. And they need to have a muscular 6 pack, not deathly skinny 6 pack.

I don’t know why. In my 20s and 30s I was attracted to a wide range of men, short, fat, broke, etc. But now I can’t do it.

I have seen the numbers on this stupid viral standard and just the 6/6/6/ standard in less half a percent of men. Throw in the 8" requirement and you probably have better odds of walking through a random forest and spotting a unicorn.

Ironically, in this area the 6' and 6 figure income probably aren't that hard to find. The six pack is where it starts to get tricky, there are more millionaires in the US than men with 6 packs.

PP. That tracks, of the men on dating apps who swipe right on me, I swipe right on way less than 1% of them. But I get at least 100 men a date swiping right on me, so I still get around a match a day who fits my criteria (well, except the 8” since I can’t see that, but I just ask for nudes early on). That’s 7-10 matches a week and I go out with around 2 of them. Plus I meet men in public and exchange numbers, too (usually at places like the gym, where I can already gauge fitness and income level).

I’ve tried hooking up with men who didn’t meet the standard and I just can’t get into it. Last weekend I tried, and couldn’t get turned on, ended up asking if he would leave. I felt bad, but I can’t really help what I want.

I can be flexible on the 6 figures. The last guy I dated made far less, but was absolutely perfect physically. I don’t mind paying for dates. I just don’t want to marry that guy, ya know?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I love me some pregnant women.
Maybe not 9+ months( I feel kinda bad for them), but months 3-7 get me stiff.

At 3 months you can’t even tell! Men are so dumb about these things.

UmK, sure, we never notice our otherwise thin co-worker's tits just balloon up at that phase, before the stomach starts to show.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I like skinny guys. Runner/soccer player build.

Same. Skinny, tall men with lean muscle, like how Alexander Skarsgard looks. Dh is a biker and a runner. I really like that his 6 pack is natural and not from working out in a gym or doing sit ups.

Bears or chubby men really turn me off.

You probably like fit men as opposed to skinny. I am 6'0 140 lbs all muscles and I don't think most women like my body type as I am very skinny. But my wife likes my body so that's good enough for me.

Anonymous wrote:I love me some pregnant women.
Maybe not 9+ months( I feel kinda bad for them), but months 3-7 get me stiff.

So funny how attraction works. DH couldn't even get hard when I was pregnant. It just turned him off so much. He had zero attraction to me and I thought I was a cute pregnant woman. He wasn't turned off by weight gain, it was more that I had a baby growing inside. Postpartum he couldn't keep his hands off me and I HATED my postpartum body.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think this is necessarily unusual, but as I’ve gotten older (I’m a 40F), I’m basically only attracted to 6/6/6/8+ men. At least 6 feet, 6 pack, 6 figures, and 8 inches. And they need to have a muscular 6 pack, not deathly skinny 6 pack.

I don’t know why. In my 20s and 30s I was attracted to a wide range of men, short, fat, broke, etc. But now I can’t do it.

It’s an unfortunate attraction, because you’re less and less likely to attract this type of man yourself.

I’ve actually been attracting more of them. When I was younger I was too intimidated by them, despite being very attractive myself. Now I see myself as their equal, I make just as much money as they do, and I get a lot of interest from attractive men who don’t want their own kids and would prefer stepkids (which there are a surprising number of). Also helps that I’m a lot of fun and plan good dates! I have a date with a cute one tonight.

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think this is necessarily unusual, but as I’ve gotten older (I’m a 40F), I’m basically only attracted to 6/6/6/8+ men. At least 6 feet, 6 pack, 6 figures, and 8 inches. And they need to have a muscular 6 pack, not deathly skinny 6 pack.

I don’t know why. In my 20s and 30s I was attracted to a wide range of men, short, fat, broke, etc. But now I can’t do it.

I have seen the numbers on this stupid viral standard and just the 6/6/6/ standard in less half a percent of men. Throw in the 8" requirement and you probably have better odds of walking through a random forest and spotting a unicorn.

Ironically, in this area the 6' and 6 figure income probably aren't that hard to find. The six pack is where it starts to get tricky, there are more millionaires in the US than men with 6 packs.

Anonymous wrote:I like skinny guys. Runner/soccer player build.

Same. Skinny, tall men with lean muscle, like how Alexander Skarsgard looks. Dh is a biker and a runner. I really like that his 6 pack is natural and not from working out in a gym or doing sit ups.

Bears or chubby men really turn me off.

I’m attracted to brown men weirdly - Indian , Middle East, Hispanic. It’s specifically smooth silky skin that gets me wet. And little hair on chest.
I tried to sleep with blonde men but their skin grosses me out - all these hair, papillomas, spots, acne…

Anonymous wrote:I don’t think this is necessarily unusual, but as I’ve gotten older (I’m a 40F), I’m basically only attracted to 6/6/6/8+ men. At least 6 feet, 6 pack, 6 figures, and 8 inches. And they need to have a muscular 6 pack, not deathly skinny 6 pack.

I don’t know why. In my 20s and 30s I was attracted to a wide range of men, short, fat, broke, etc. But now I can’t do it.

It’s an unfortunate attraction, because you’re less and less likely to attract this type of man yourself.

Anonymous wrote:I love me some pregnant women.
Maybe not 9+ months( I feel kinda bad for them), but months 3-7 get me stiff.

At 3 months you can’t even tell! Men are so dumb about these things.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can't make myself be attracted to anyone outside my type which is sort of a delicate man, lanky, floppy hair, sharp features.
I probably would have been really happy with a burly manly guy and I could have been a farm wife and cleaned his fish and helped him build a barn. But I just can't do it physically. My friends who married these guys are so well taken care of.

What does this statement mean?

The wives don't have to worry about anything outside kid stuff. The husbands have finances in order, constant plans for home improvements, make travel arrangements (sometimes even surprise ones), deal with businesses and tradesmen --all things that I have to be in charge of at my house while my husband goes with the flow. He's so cute though.

I like skinny guys. Runner/soccer player build.

A cups.

Older men. Not OLD old men, but Gen X men and I'm a millennial. They have better taste in music, a better upbringing and life experience and vibe. I like men about 15 years older.