Anonymous
Post 09/10/2025 11:23     Subject: Curious behavior in my neighborhood—Any thoughts?
Anonymous wrote:I have a neighbour that does the same! He just drives a short distance away, parks the car and sits in it. All day. Leaving the car running. I think they have a SN son and it seems like he just leaves the home and abandons the mom and child.

This one sounds like he lost his job and hasn’t told his wife yet.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2025 11:22     Subject: Curious behavior in my neighborhood—Any thoughts?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have a neighbour that does the same! He just drives a short distance away, parks the car and sits in it. All day. Leaving the car running. I think they have a SN son and it seems like he just leaves the home and abandons the mom and child.


If you haven't ever been responsible 24-7 for a disabled child, sit down and zip it. "Abandons"? please.

Except the mother doesn't get the same break. He literally parks near my house for 8+h a day sometimes. I MAJORLY feel for his wife, who has to deal with the household while he fu**s off and just literally sits in his car.

Alternately, he could be working from home. My neighbors' sn child makes a lot of noise. Constantly. They take turns leaving the house to make calls. Neither can work from home. They work in shifts. Sometimes at the library, sometimes in their car, and sometimes at a coffee shop. You never know what people are going through or what agreements couples have.


NP. My first thought would definitely be that he was working from his car because the house is too noisy or chaotic.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2025 11:20     Subject: Curious behavior in my neighborhood—Any thoughts?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have a neighbour that does the same! He just drives a short distance away, parks the car and sits in it. All day. Leaving the car running. I think they have a SN son and it seems like he just leaves the home and abandons the mom and child.


If you haven't ever been responsible 24-7 for a disabled child, sit down and zip it. "Abandons"? please.

Except the mother doesn't get the same break. He literally parks near my house for 8+h a day sometimes. I MAJORLY feel for his wife, who has to deal with the household while he fu**s off and just literally sits in his car.

Alternately, he could be working from home. My neighbors' sn child makes a lot of noise. Constantly. They take turns leaving the house to make calls. Neither can work from home. They work in shifts. Sometimes at the library, sometimes in their car, and sometimes at a coffee shop. You never know what people are going through or what agreements couples have.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2025 11:20     Subject: Curious behavior in my neighborhood—Any thoughts?
Maybe he enjoys choking the chicken in a semi public space
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2025 11:19     Subject: Curious behavior in my neighborhood—Any thoughts?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How can you tell his car is always running if you’re just driving by? This seems like a dumb troll thread.

The lights are on and I can see exhaust in the colder mornings/days. I’m not a troll.


So you see him constantly in this one spot, over months and months, car running all the time? That sounds like a lot.

How frequently do you see someone else coming to or from his car?

I see him when I’m coming in/going out of the neighborhood; I have to pass this field to get home. He’s always alone with the car running. No one else ever parks there, and when you pair that with his distinctive vehicle, it’s not hard to notice him.


If you’ve never seen another person near his vehicle on the multitude of occasions that you seen his car there, why would you think he was a drug dealer?
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2025 11:18     Subject: Re:Curious behavior in my neighborhood—Any thoughts?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Is he “middle eastern looking”?

He’s not. What’s that have to do with anything?


Get a life
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2025 11:18     Subject: Curious behavior in my neighborhood—Any thoughts?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have a neighbour that does the same! He just drives a short distance away, parks the car and sits in it. All day. Leaving the car running. I think they have a SN son and it seems like he just leaves the home and abandons the mom and child.


If you haven't ever been responsible 24-7 for a disabled child, sit down and zip it. "Abandons"? please.

Well, who is managing the reality of the SN kid when he could be home helping instead of escaping reality?

Exactly.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2025 11:15     Subject: Curious behavior in my neighborhood—Any thoughts?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How can you tell his car is always running if you’re just driving by? This seems like a dumb troll thread.

The lights are on and I can see exhaust in the colder mornings/days. I’m not a troll.


So you see him constantly in this one spot, over months and months, car running all the time? That sounds like a lot.

How frequently do you see someone else coming to or from his car?

I see him when I’m coming in/going out of the neighborhood; I have to pass this field to get home. He’s always alone with the car running. No one else ever parks there, and when you pair that with his distinctive vehicle, it’s not hard to notice him.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2025 11:15     Subject: Curious behavior in my neighborhood—Any thoughts?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have a neighbour that does the same! He just drives a short distance away, parks the car and sits in it. All day. Leaving the car running. I think they have a SN son and it seems like he just leaves the home and abandons the mom and child.


If you haven't ever been responsible 24-7 for a disabled child, sit down and zip it. "Abandons"? please.

Except the mother doesn't get the same break. He literally parks near my house for 8+h a day sometimes. I MAJORLY feel for his wife, who has to deal with the household while he fu**s off and just literally sits in his car.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2025 11:11     Subject: Curious behavior in my neighborhood—Any thoughts?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How can you tell his car is always running if you’re just driving by? This seems like a dumb troll thread.

The lights are on and I can see exhaust in the colder mornings/days. I’m not a troll.


So you see him constantly in this one spot, over months and months, car running all the time? That sounds like a lot.

How frequently do you see someone else coming to or from his car?
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2025 11:11     Subject: Curious behavior in my neighborhood—Any thoughts?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have a neighbour that does the same! He just drives a short distance away, parks the car and sits in it. All day. Leaving the car running. I think they have a SN son and it seems like he just leaves the home and abandons the mom and child.


If you haven't ever been responsible 24-7 for a disabled child, sit down and zip it. "Abandons"? please.

Well, who is managing the reality of the SN kid when he could be home helping instead of escaping reality?
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2025 11:09     Subject: Curious behavior in my neighborhood—Any thoughts?
Anonymous wrote:I have a neighbour that does the same! He just drives a short distance away, parks the car and sits in it. All day. Leaving the car running. I think they have a SN son and it seems like he just leaves the home and abandons the mom and child.


If you haven't ever been responsible 24-7 for a disabled child, sit down and zip it. "Abandons"? please.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2025 11:08     Subject: Curious behavior in my neighborhood—Any thoughts?
Anonymous wrote:How can you tell his car is always running if you’re just driving by? This seems like a dumb troll thread.

The lights are on and I can see exhaust in the colder mornings/days. I’m not a troll.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2025 11:08     Subject: Curious behavior in my neighborhood—Any thoughts?
We used to get bad cell reception in our house, so i would go sit in the car to have a conversation.

honestly, who cares? its a free country.
Anonymous
Post 09/10/2025 11:07     Subject: Curious behavior in my neighborhood—Any thoughts?
How can you tell his car is always running if you’re just driving by? This seems like a dumb troll thread.